Flying in a Perfect Sky

The Importance of Neuroscience in -Power of the Mind- Talk

2011-11-14T23:36:00.005+11:00

Hello everyone!

Today we will be mentioning the mind/body connection within the brain. This is the sort of things Amy Farrah Fowler from The Big Bang Theory learns about! ;) Although it sounds complicated and boring, I hope to present it in a way that isn't. Surprisingly, it is very interesting stuff!

I would like to introduce the works of the late Dr. Wilder Penfield. To all those who are unfamiliar with his genesis of the "Cortical Homunculus", I would like to share the following article:

How Your Brain Sees your Body: Meet the Corticol Homunculus (2010) by Ether Inglis-Arkell @ 109 Neurology

Our next overload of articles is about Neuroplasticity, the ability of the mind to change its physiology and function depending on the input it is given, and what it trains itself to do. Props goes to the magnificent people at Sharp Brains, whom have worked very hard to put this information together.

Articles were linked through the website by Alvaro Fernandez.

Brain Plasticity: How Learning Changes your Brain, by Dr. Pascale Michelon

The Ten Habits of Highly Effective Brains, by Alvaro Fernandez

Train your Brain to Focus on Positive Experiences, by Greater Good Magazine

Free Brain Exercise: Two Feet of Free Therapy, by Caroline Latham

Brain Exercise and Brain Health FAQ, by Alvaro Fernandez

Thank you to all of you!

Place Promised in Our Early Days

2011-09-27T17:53:00.003+10:00

Hello anime fans!

For those familiar with this beautifully film by Makoto Shinkai, years ago I went through and picked out scenes that could have been deleted, as I thought the film was too long.

This is a challenge to all film editors who are a fan of anime to go through that film and keep the following sections:

0-4sec
18sec- 40sec
52sec- 1:20
1:26- 4:15
4:43-5:22
5:35- 7:45
8:16- 10:06 (10:49)??
10:53- 11:41
11:50- 14:43
15:06- 18:33
20:15- 26:42
30:49- 31:05
32:58- 33:37
42:05-45:57
48:15- 49:20
50:05- 56:00
57:14- 58:30
1:00:58- 1:01:20
1:02: 14- 1:08:30
1:10:48- 1:11:22
1:12:02- 1:17:43
1:18:5- end

Have fun!

Also, now I can finally delete this file off my computer ;)

Experiencing Oneness

2011-04-05T22:49:00.002+10:00

Hey

These are some more abstract messages i had "received" or "thought up" (whatever fits with you) during meditations of sorts. I hope you find them interesting or intruiging, can take something from them. Then maybe I won't be insane ;)

And as always, I'm not trying to convert anyone, but sharing my experience, and no one has to believe it or follow it. Its there for those whom are interested in the same things I am. I can think of a few people who will enjoy reading this. If its not you, that's fine. Perhaps its best you stop reading now ;P

I was re-mincing on the spiritual "Law of One" theory and wanted to better understand it. Like I understood the theory but I couldn't fully grasp it.

Me: How do I remember this?
The experience that followed was a fluctuation or collapsing of my mind. Its like a heartbeat, and a ripple expands within the most minute space of time. You link into the Everything. It is a terrifying experience. It's just so ENORMOUS. Before I could expand any further and probably disappear out of being conscious (that's what I felt was going to happen), I compacted myself back into my usual state.
Most people have experienced this sensation through dreams. My partner, for example, had a dream he was a grain of sand on a beach, and then he became all the grains of sand.

"All that you see is you"

I "heard" this message and it just clicked. So to the person reading this, I am you and you are me. :) Names, for example, is just one of the many ways we have tricked our brains into thinking we are separate entities. We are the same person. Its like clones of yourself running around- all the me's have just chosen different things to experience or do. :P Mind fuck? Next time you're walking down a street, try thinking "Hey look its me over there". Very amusing. It brings a smile to my face very often :) I do it quite often now.

A theory as to our existence
I started thinking about why the physical world exists, what its made of. I thought of, if you compress the Everything energy, then you create solid matter. Food for thought. :) i think it makes sense though.

"God" theory
Also if anyone believes in the spiritual theory of we are God experiencing a human life, I also thought... that we become God (in terms of performing 'miracles') by linking into the everything. It doesn't just happen unless you can link into everyone else. We are powerful as a unit, by harnessing the energy.

If you guys have trouble fully grasping this idea, next time your mind drifts into meditation land, ask for help. Perhaps you will gain an understanding. :)

So if this theory does match up with you, it does make the "Insult another person, insult yourself" theory fit together on a deeper level. :)

Hope you all found this interesting.

Xx

The Magic of Sacred Geometry

2011-01-25T15:10:00.002+11:00

Quite literally. The beauty and simplicity of it is quite astounding. This website, GeometryCode.com by Bruce Rawless has plenty of information on the subject, all explained very clearly with a good choice of pictures. It's a lot better than anything I could ever explain, so hear it from the experts :)

Weight Loss is Easy!

2011-01-25T13:28:00.006+11:00

Everyone has bought into the media's diets or flip flop bipolar "Okay okay the last idea sucked, this will make you thin" ideas, and it seems almost everyone has some part of their body they want to look more eye catching. After years of struggling with weight loss, I have managed to find a lifestyle that works. From all the books and websites I have read, this is a collection of both information from those books, my own experience and the experiences of those around me. I hope you enjoy reading it. Of course this lifestyle change may not work for you, and as always I can and will not force you to follow anything I say. It's all a choice, but I hope you make some that work for you! :)

Now let's begin!

1. Make it a Lifestyle change

If you just go on a diet or something in short term, it's useless, because you will constantly be jumping back and forth from being ridiculously thin to overweight or more.

2. Have at least one hour of moderate to intense aerobic exercise workout a day

Aerobic exercise burns the most energy, so that's the type of exercise that tones. What exercises are these? Cycling, running, jogging, swimming, dancing, step aerobics, skipping, martial arts, most sports (soccer, basketball, ice hockey...etc)- anything that keeps your body moving, working a sweat, make your heart rate go up and breathing heavily. Breathing is very important, as its oxygen and glucose combined that burns away energy. This is the same advice I have gotten off two of my friends who follow this lifestyle- they are both models and very beautiful. One does high intensity interval training of running on an oval 7 days a week, every week- the other does aerobics at the gym. That gives you a good idea of what you're striving for!

But I don't have time!

Yes, it's hard to juggle your schedule, isn't it? I have to juggle study, work, maintaining a relationship, doing chores and socializing as well as taking care of myself. Big demands! But it is possible. I talked to one of my friends (who I will keep anonymous) about how she manages to work part time, study full time, live on her own with a friend and manage to do at least 2 hours of exercise a day! She said "You just make time for it". So who cares about your schedule! Go do that gym session or run around the block! After all, if you don't have time for you- no one else is going to bother to do anything about it! I have found this "Screw it, just do it" method works. If you plan out your day you may be surprised how much time you do actually have.

But I hate exercise!

Adapt it to be something you enjoy. I watch TV and alternate between running back and forth the room with a medicine ball for 3 minutes, then do step areobics for another 3 minutes. Nowadays I do yoga. Of course this may not work for you- but add fun things to it until you enjoy it! Switch it up! Even better, sign up and pay for something new! Like a hip hop class or cycling! There are plenty of options out there, and the more you find something you love, the better!! You'll want to exercise. You'll want to get fitter and stronger so you can better do your favorite sport. It really is so much more enjoyable to exercise as a group! The "at home exercise" option may fit those who have little time on their hands or have money to spare.

3. Adjusting to the Lifestyle

You'll be surprised. I thought I'd hate the lifestyle with a passion but after some will-power it was the best decision I had ever made. You feel great, look amazing (sweat and the exercise hormones helps clear the skin and is great for acne), also be a lot fitter, of course will lose weight and KEEP IT OFF. I am the type of person who used to be really lazy and hated the thought of a workout. Now so long as I know WHY I'm doing it, I can exercise anything! But at the moment I'm really into dancing.

Remember exercise is such an addictive habit to get into ("Exercise gives you endorphins, endorphins make you happy" - Reese Witherspoon as Elle in Legally Blonde!), it helps so much with confidence and if you have the will power and find something you enjoy, you will not regret it! Remember if you get sick of something, change to something else! Pick out a time you can exercise, and repeat in your head "Today when I get home from [such and such] I will do [such and such] exercise". Do it! It becomes easier the more you do it.

3. Always have one serving/helping of food, and make it the smallest size available

Huge portion sizes is a contributing reason as to why we're so friggin' fat. It really is. In 2006 I decided I hated my body and wanted to lose weight. So I cut out desert, I didn't eat any junk food, hardly ever. 1 in a 100 chance I'd eat something unhealthy. But I was devastated! I was still gaining weight, and I had no idea why since I was eating healthily! When people say "Change your diet its making you fat" that would never apply to me, because I am one of the healthiest eaters I know. The problem was I was still eating massive helpings of food, and sometimes I'd eat more than one massive helping. Large size was the go for me.

Having only one serving/helping of food, and making it the smallest size available is a great way to fix up portion sizes. Keep in mind, more than one helping is the equivalent of another meal altogether! We're not meant to eat until we are full. We are meant to finish eating when we are satisfied. This method helps with that. Keep in mind if you cook too much, just put it in the fridge and eat it over the next few days. It saves you having to cook every single day!!

But that isn't enough food! I don't want to starve!

It is a fear for survival. I know it all too well. I look at Sumo Salad and see the small bowl you can eat out of. I think "WTF I'm still going to be hungry after that. It won't fill me up at all". You will be surprised! Give it a go. Normally it's just the right amount to keep you satisfied, even almost full. :) And hey, if you're still left with an angry, empty, rumbling tummy afterwards- for god's sake, buy another bit of food! However, keep in mind your stomach will literally shrink when you cut down the amount you eat.

4. Never go Hungry

When we starve ourselves, when we start eating again our body goes "OMG I've been starving all this time I have to put all this weight on!" - and your endeavor of starving yourself to loose weight is pointless. Not only does it make you look really unhealthy, but it slows down metabolism, so you'll be less likely to loose weight without doing anything- and you'll be weak, unable to concentrate.... If you're hungry, I believe its better to eat something unhealthy and not starve (if that really is your only option), then starve and eat healthy food later.

5. The Junk food you have during the day counts as your desert

To loose weight, you don't have to cut out junk food. Just follow Tip #3 (and this one) and you're all set! If for example, I'm out at the shops and I want a muffin. I can go "Yeah, damn right I'm going to eat this muffin, but it'll be my desert so I can't have anything later on". It works so very well :) It means you don't have to completely cut out sugary goodness out of your life forever.

6. Get a Calorie Counter and Keep Track of What you have Eaten

It is not too difficult to do. It's just useful if things don't go according to plan. For example, if there's a day where you ate a really big serving of food, keep a mental note of drinking only water for the rest of the day /cut out dessert so you don't take in more calories than you need to. MyNetDiary is available online or with an Iphone/Ipad. It has been fantastic. I am no longer worried about whether this bit of food will make me fat, or whether I am doing enough to lose weight or not. These thoughts were plaguing me for years, even brought me into a semi state of anorexia nervosa at one point!

7. Go Vegetarian

My twin sister, Dot, became vegetarian a year before I decided to.... and she was loosing weight naturally without doing any real exercise, while I was working my ass off every day! I was so jealous, so now I have gone vegetarian too. This change will piss a lot of people off, and by no means do you have to. But the benefits are obvious. Almost guaranteed weight loss. Since by the Atwatar factor each gram of Fat has the most energy in it, fat makes you fat. And meat is very high in cholesterol and saturated fat. Cut it out and your calorie count has dropped considerably. Just make sure if you do this you get enough Iron and protein- especially Iron or you will get iron deficiency anemia, and you will be very week. Fluradix is an iron supplement I take every day, and I eat a great deal of spinach and red kidney beans- they're magic foods high in iron!

But I love meat, I don't want to say goodbye to it. My diet would be so boring

This was the main reason I didn't become vegetarian for so long, but it has other benefits besides weight loss and generally better health: clear skin. My acne was horrible, I was buying the most expensive cleansers, using it properly with little results. But for some reason, being vegetarian has cleared up my skin. I don't even use cleanser anymore and it is a lot better than it was when I was cleansing my face. And don't worry about lack of variety. Being vegetarian has opened me up to "strict vegetarian foods" - meals that 'only vegetarians' eat, and they taste amazing! Also you can get meat substitutes, like 'fake meat' made of special protein. I have yet to try some but it must taste somewhat decent otherwise no one would eat it!

Here is a very interesting article about The Facts of Vegetarianism

But there are people who manage to stay thin as still eating meat, so its up to you. :)

8. Be patient

Results come incredibly slowly, there will be times where you still mentally insult yourself for looking the way you do (although remember those are just thoughts!). I had to keep reminding myself that since results are happening I just have to wait a while and I will look the way I want to eventually. On the ShapeFit website, it seems the average time period for becoming the way you want to look on a lifestyle that makes you lose weight is 6 months. Half a year. It's lengthy, but I know you can do it! :)

9. Know the Difference between Hunger and Appetite

Very important to avoid overeating or eating out of boredom, depression or other reasons. Hunger is when your stomach is empty and growling for food. Appetite is just when you feel like eating because you saw something yummy. Make sure you only eat when you're hungry. Appetite is a trap! Try drinking tea to take your mind off things if you ever feel like emotionally eating or eating out of appetite alone.

That's all my tips. People come up to me now and say "You look fabulous" and "Oh my god, you're so thin!". Give it a few more months and I will be the way I want to look :) Over the past few months I have been losing weight for the first time in my life instead of constantly gaining it. It's very satisfying, exciting and wonderful experience. :) My wish is I can give you this experience as well. Good luck!

WEIGHT LOSS IS EASY

IF IT ISN'T YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG

Finally I'd like to share before/after weight loss success stories people have sent in at Shapefit.com. There are plenty of them and they're all very inspirational! So if you need motivation to get off of your bum from the computer, read them, and go for a walk!

for all its worth, the anime Kaleido Star always makes me feel like running around and exercising, so if watching other people exercise at the gym, dance or do gymnastics gets you pumped, try that too! :) <3

I would just like to mention that while I have a basic accredited qualification in Nutrition, I am no replacement for a Naturopath, Nutritionist, physiotherapist or personal trainer. Please consult one of these individuals if you would like to change something about your weight.

"V" for Vendetta? NOT

2011-01-25T13:21:00.002+11:00

On the subject of UFOs I thought the somewhat recent TV series (2009) based around the subject called "V" was worth noting. I haven't seen it myself but the theory is its supposed to mirror the actual story of how UFOs/aliens function or at least act, in the reports that have been given (this was derived from Divinecosmos.com. Of course there are minor differences but this is the closest the media has come to mirroring such things). As true or false as the similarities or existence of aliens in the first place may be, it is a new spin given to the usual alien story, and interesting to look at for this reason.

You can see the trailer here.

Happy watching! :)

Must See Video on Possible Advanced Ancient Civilization

2010-06-11T22:16:00.004+10:00

Here's the description from Youtube.

Setting History Free: Graham Hancock & David Wilcock

Bringing together two inspirational investigators of our hidden past and uncertain future, this unique dialogue between David Wilcock and Graham Hancock takes us on a roller-coaster ride through the wonders of ancient civilisations and into the mysterious nature of reality itself

Even though its an hour long it is incredibly informative and interesting and definitely worth waiting for it to load.

Love

Inspiration concerning "Self esteem"

2010-02-05T22:05:00.003+11:00

(As always, try sticking yourself in my situation. I write this because I'm sure it has applied to you at some point).

I was worrying about how some guy might like another girl more than me, and I got:

You have a beautiful light. You don't need to be afraid of it.

My response: But I don't feel beautiful. I feel like an emotional wreck. Could you help me comprehend it?

I can't remember the (somewhat brilliant) phrasing but I got something about how... not feeling beautiful is also beautiful, so you don't need to worry about feeling beautiful or not because you are it, no matter what. So this means all this stuff about "self esteem" is just an illusion. It's not real. It doesn't even matter if you have "high self esteem" or not. So in a way self help books are just buying you into the illusion.

It seems whenever people worry or get scared about "OMG what if someone thinks I'm weird/ doesn't like me" type of stuff, it's because they're afraid of their own power (give thanks to the source of inspiration for that).

A week ago, I got this. It pretty much sums up everything.

You are beautiful just the way you are. You don't need to change for anyone, even yourself.

I found the 'even yourself' bit most interesting. It's something I haven't really heard anywhere before.

Also... a week or two ago I was worrying about all the things I had done in the past and I got:

Everything you have done is perfect

Which is so unbelievably nice to know.

I hope you guys found the information as liberating as I did =)

Lots of love!

Wynter

From the back page of the “Fearless” Platinum edition lyrics booklet

2010-02-03T19:23:00.000+11:00

And I quote Taylor Swift – “

This album is called FEARLESS, and I guess I’d like to clarify why we chose that as the title.

To me, FEARLESS is not the absence of fear. It’s not being completely unafraid.

To me, FEARLESS is having fears. FEARLESS is having doubts. Lots of them.

To me, FEARLESS is living in spite of those things that scare you to death.

FEARLESS is falling madly in love again, even though you’ve been hurt before

FEARLESS is walking into your freshmen year of high school at fifteen

FEARLESS is getting back up and fighting for what you want over and over again… even though every time you’ve tried before, you’ve lost.

It’s FEARLESS to have faith that someday things will change.

FEARLESS is having the courage to say goodbye to someone who only hurts you, even if you can’t breathe without them.

I think it’s FEARLESS to fall for your best friend, even though he’s in love with someone else.

And when someone apologizes to you enough times for things they’ll never stop doing, I think it’s FEARLESS to stop believing them.

It’s FEARLESS to say, “You’re NOT sorry” and walk away.

I think loving someone despite what people think is FEARLESS.

I think allowing yourself to cry on the bathroom floor is FEARLESS.

Letting go is FEARLESS. Then, moving on and being alright… that’s FEARLESS too.

But no matter what love throws at you, you have to believe in it. You have to believe in love stories and prince charmings and happily ever after. That’s why I write these songs. Because I think love is FEARLESS.”

Feeling down? Me too. =)

2010-01-25T23:14:00.003+11:00

I was feeling incredibly isolated so wrote this to comfort myself. Maybe you can get something out of it too.

It’s all too easy to feel like you’re nothing

When no one notices or appreciates you

Wondering if you’ve said the wrong thing

Or if you’re living in mistakes and gutters

You’ll find your place someday soon and

Those who matter will be able to see

Why you are so sparkly!!! =D

Where We Are Going

2010-01-15T21:45:00.002+11:00

The light is a beautiful place... brighter than anywhere on Earth

Well, here I was thinking we had light here. By the sounds of this its like we have only seen faint glimpses of what there is to come. So if this is true and not my imagination... hell yeah, bring it on!! Now we know we live in a deeper, crummier hole than we thought possible. xD

Many Layers of Experience

2010-01-10T20:51:00.002+11:00

"Thanks so much to Archangel Michael, spirit guides, superconscious, collective unconscious... whatever the heck it was that gave me the answer"

You are the collective unconscious

That's you too, reader.

If we are part of collective unconsciousness, then we are also the collective unconsciousness. It depends which way you want to look at it. A drop in the ocean is still part of the ocean.

This is just rehashing the whole "world is a mirror of ourselves" thing, plus, if we are all one, then ultimately, whatever we get answers from is ... at the very core of our existence.... us.

So it doesn't really matter where the information comes from.... basically. Unless you want to look at it in a certain way, your experience will reflect a particular thought.

Makes sense?

Hope so.

Putting Polyamory in Perspective

2010-01-10T19:06:00.002+11:00

Where would we be without:
- Partners “cheating” on us and the riot it causes?
- Unnecessary break ups that don’t ring true to one’s heart?
- The jealousy gun we point at anyone who passes?
- Anger, fear and uncomfortable feelings we get concerning “others” “interfering” with a relationship?

I think a world without all these things would be pretty awesome, don’t you agree?

Healthy polyamory is the only lifestyle I can think of that creates this sort of world. This paradigm pushes people's buttons, so I thought I'd write this to help others understand what a healthy example of polyamory looks like.

Anyone who has read romance fan-fiction will know shippers like to pair random people together. Each of these pairings can function perfectly well, but, paring person A with B will be different than pairing person B with C. Polyamory is basically saying "All these ships can function together". It creates a new set of fireworks, so to speak, and can be wonderfully unique and fun! :)

EXAMPLE

I was waiting in line of Woolworths, looking at a magazine propped on the side. Here’s what jumps out at me.

ROBERT PATTINSON BETRAYS KRISTEN STEWART!!

It had a picture of Robert smiling like a fool, and Kristen looking suicidally depressed. It then quotes Kristen:

“It’s her or me”

I opened up to read Robert had fallen for the one and only Katy Perry.
That’s interesting I thought, flicking it shut, then turned to Dot.
“Polyamory would solve everything”
Dot acts like I’m not even there. She walks away and says nothing. Understandable reaction for someone getting their mind screwed with.

I’m just going to show you...

This is what the article could have been

Disclaimer: this is all completely made up and fictional. Please don't take it as something real. It's something I concocted.

Imagine if the magazine said this.

ROBERT PATTINSON FINDS A NEW LOVE WITH KATY PERRY!

There’s a picture of Robert and Katy with their arms around each other, grimacing, and Kristen hanging over the top of both of them in the middle, with her arms around their necks, thumbs up, a giant grin on her face. There’s a tag-line on the picture saying “Kristen approved”.

Flicking inside the magazine, there's a lengthy transcribed interview.

Interviewer: We are sitting in the middle of a crowded café, having the pleasure to speak with Twilight superstars Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson tonight, and of course, singer Katy Perry. How are you going tonight?

(Katy bats her eyelashes sexily for the camera)

Katy: Oh, fantastic.

(Robert is laughing too much at this point and is unavailable to comment)

Interviewer: So how did this all start? Kristen, you seem pretty fond of telling the story

(Kristen grimaces and looks playfully at the ceiling for a moment)

Kristen: Well… Robert kept in the closet for a while. It was kinda annoying. He’d be like “Oh, I’m going out with Katy” or “Come hang out with me! I’m bringing Katy” so one day I cornered him and said “Are you seriously expecting me to believe she’s just a friend to you?”. Robert just laughed and said “No”. Haha. I grilled him about it for a while but he just caved in.

(Robert has tears in his eyes from trying to stop laughing)

Robert: It was terrible

Interviewer: Robert, you seem to find this terribly amusing.

(Robert wipes his eyes)

Robert: Oh, well it’s just so stupid. Kristen’s just too good to me, I suppose. She figures out everything in the end.

Katy: Just like Bella

Robert: Yeah, just like Bella.

(Kristen rolls her eyes, smiling)

Interviewer: Katy, you’ve gone awfully quiet.

Katy: I dunno. I think my next single should be ‘Threesomes by the double” or something cheesy like that

Robert: (laughs) That would be terrible

Kristen: I don’t know, I think it has potential. Can I help write it?

Katy: It would be a crime for me to say no

Kristen: Now things are getting good. I could be in a music video.

Katy: No! All the fame for me!

Kristen: (shaking her head) Shut up. I’m a billion times more popular then you.

Robert: Only because of me

Kristen: Shut up

Interviewer: So what are your plans? Who’s moving in with who? It must be very confusing.

Robert: Yeah, I get my brain in a knot every day

Kristen: It’s because you’re a man. Katy and I have got it sorted. Haven’t we?

Katy: We most certainly have

Robert: Oh no.... women keeping secrets from me again.

Katy: Here’s the plan, Edward…

Kristen: We’re going to all move in together in a… resort place. I don’t know. We’ll have enough money.

Katy: That’s not all. It’s going to be awesome.

Robert: I would like to think so...

Kristen: It’s-

Robert: ...If you drag me into a hobo lair, you know who’s going to pay

Katy: Yes

Kristen: Both of us

Robert: Haha… I think we’ve said too much

Interviewer: You three have been an inspiration to many couples stuck in similar situations as you.

Robert: I’m glad

Kristen: Well… people are pretty fucked up

Interviewer: Do you have anything to say about that?

Katy: I think it’s strange, to be honest. When you see what can become of something, you sort of wonder why the alternative existed in the first place.

Kristen and Robert: Yeah

Katy: I think people are still allowed to make their own choices, but maybe … consider the alternatives a little more?

Interviewer: What brought you to that state of mind?

Katy: I’ve always been one to push boundaries and question, because the world’s full of questions, and sometimes not having the answer isn't good enough

Interviewer: What about you, Kristen?

Kristen: I guess I got sick of mental breakdowns, to be honest. And hurting everyone involved. Admittedly this is a typical sort of a situation: your boyfriend falls for one of your good friends.

Katy: Acquaintance darling

Kristen: No, but… come on, everyone knows Katy’s a nice person

Katy: Thank you

Kristen: ...and it’s not nice to be hurting people all the time. I guess... something just clicked in my brain and I thought "Hey, I don't want to do this anymore".

Interviewer: Do you share similar sentiments, Robert?

(Robert is chewing on a toothpick, staring at the table)

Robert: Umm…look, I don’t know anymore. I didn’t come up with this. I’m lucky Kristen didn’t chop my head off. That's what I was expecting.

(Kristen smiles and puts a hand on Roberts knee)

Kristen: You know I would never do that, honey

(Robert smiles)

Robert: I am incredibly lucky to be surrounded by two beautiful woman in such a fine bar, on television. I’m lucky I didn’t have to jump off a building in complete guilt of loving someone else.

Kristen and Katy: Awww

Katy: We’re touched. Really.

Kristen: Sarcasm, much?

(Katy laughs and gives Kristen a High Five)

Kristen: Hell yes!

Interviewer: It’s nice to see all of you so happy

(Robert shakes his head in some sort of insane, big eyed way)

Robert: Oh, hell yes.

Interviewer: We have someone else we need to interview. Any last words?

Katy: I’ll be bringing out a new song, ‘Threesome’s by the double’ soon

Kristen: When it has a better name

Katy: Sure, if you can come up with one

Kristen: Thank you so much for talking to us. I hope viewers at home aren’t too creeped out.

Robert: (Laughs) You’re dating a vampire; you’ve fucked everyone up enough

Kristen: URrrgg! See, he always likes to pretend I’m Bella!

Katy: Bella

(Kristen makes a puppy face and Katy pats her on the head)

Robert: I hope everyone makes some good choices at home

Katy: Not like this loser

Robert: Hey!

(Robert, Katy and Kristen wave at the camera)

All: See ya later!!

___

You can say that is entirely unrealistic, but I found it the easiest thing in the world to write, so it can't be that bad.

For those who still find this idea confusing, or find it hard to grasp the possibilities, perhaps this article on Your Lover's Other Lovers might help you.

For those who want a better idea on how to create a healthy polyamorous relationship, check out the book mentioned in the recommendation list.

:) enjoy

Repetitiveness and Redundancy

2010-01-07T01:51:00.005+11:00

A random bout of inspiration I got yesterday...

Redundancy is a human concept

It makes sense. If EVERYTHING is meaningful and colorful, then redundancy simply doesn't exist. Which can sort of explain how dogs live the same day virtually a hundred times and can still be happy as all hell. <3

In other words, redundancy is an illusion, so if you find yourself thinking how boring and "not worth experiencing" something is, remember it isn't real, and it may fade away. =)

One thing I've tried that helps with me. When you find yourself in the clouds ask:

What is the significance of this moment (in the grand scheme of things)? What kind of activity am I doing?

Then focus completely on that, because that's what's meaningful about that moment. Makes sense? If you don't find it "significant enough" then do something to make it so.

Love!!

Where is the Love? - More Inspiring Songs

2009-12-07T21:36:00.006+11:00

I thought I'd post these songs, since they have nice messages. Click on the titles for lyrics. Please enjoy! :)

Where is the Love? - The Black Eyed Peas (2003)

This next song doesn't have an official video so I am posting a fan made music video with footage from the anime, The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya (thanks to the user who made it!)

Imperfect is the New Perfect - Caitlin Crosby (2009)

This is where the love is! Within you! *dramatic tone* ah, that's so cheesy. But true!

This is Who I Am - Vanessa Amorosi (2009)

Thank you to all the talented artists and musicians who collaborated on these songs.

I hope this has cured you of a little boredom.

Wynter

Perfection

2009-12-07T18:31:00.013+11:00

This information is thanks to various authors. It can be found in many different places so its hard to say who came up with it first :)

Perception is Projection:

What we See in the World is a Reflection of Ourselves.

So if there's someone out there who really annoys you (me? lol), it's because there's a quality in you - you see in that person- that annoys you. If you say "You are stupid" it flips around to say "I really hope I'm not stupid otherwise everyone will hate me". It stems from fear.

The opposite is also true. If we think "Wow, I love how confident this person is" it's because we have this in ourselves too. Louise L Hay plays with this concept in "You Can Heal your Life", using affirmations to eliminate self-hatred and fear. Many of these patterns stem from our parents or relatives.

Our perception is also shaped by our feelings.

For example, if you're laughing your head off, the world looks a lot brighter. It becomes effortless to see the good things in life. However, if you are feeing awful, it becomes all too easy to criticize and critique. Again, it is a reflection of something within yourself. Not many people realize how much impact our feelings have on our perception, but there you go.

All this self-love stuff isn't about being "stuck up" or "thinking you're better than everyone else". It's important because when you love yourself, you can be your most authentic self, your world will reflect this and other people will love you in return. You can also love others a great deal more, and that is awesome! It feels nice to love others, I hope you agree?

What does this have to do with perfection? Well:

If you don't believe perfection exists or can't see someone else as being perfect, you don't believe you are perfect.

Okay a great deal of fears, emotions (anger, maybe?), "wow that doesn't make any sense" or questions probably shot up right there. What are they? What are you afraid of? Why do you feel that way? It's important. Take a moment to figure out what it is. Listen to yourself. Mine was:

"But if I don't insult myself, then someone else will"

The reply was "Only if you think that way".

Which is true. Our thoughts are self-fulfilling prophecies in a lot of ways, so I decided to send out what I wanted instead of people hating me. Once I had determinedly drilled it into my head, I suddenly found myself drawn to a different group of friends. I wasn't shunning my old friends, I just was more comfortable in a new group. The same thing can happen to you.

When you love and respect yourself, and know there are people out there who love you unconditionally, you will no longer want to hang around others who think of you in a "negative" way, and you will naturally find others who love you exactly the way you are. Not saying these people are "bad", they're just living in a self-created fear-prison (Donnie Darko, anyone?).

Many find this hard to understand, because we have been loved based on conditions. "Oh, if you're not this, and this, and this... then I won't love you". After a while, we learn that is "normal". But all it is showing is that this "lover" will only love themselves if they fit a number of conditions. This self-hatred is worthy of compassion and attention, because, well, I love you! I can relate, and if it was me I would like someone to love me, so I don't mind if you hate yourself.

"What is in a name? A rose if given any other name would smell as sweet"

- Romeo and Juliet

I used to be someone who would insult EVERYONE I came across in my head. "Oh, you're fat. You're ugly. You're stupid. You're annoying, shut the hell up... etc". But once I started loving myself, all those thoughts vanished. They just faded away. I used to hate my parents. I now like them. I now like lots of people that used to annoy me. Instead I can look someone in the face, say "I love you" and not feel weird about it at all. And the best bit is people give me a hug and say "I LOVE YOU TOO!!!" =D

I'm probably doing a terrible job of explaining this, and if I am I'm sorry. But I hope it has helped somewhat.

Wynter

When You Love Someone

2009-12-06T23:22:00.002+11:00

I wrote this just because. I hope you like it, despite how chain-letter-cheesy it is.

1. You see that person for who they really are, someone perfect*

2. And you'd never want to get rid of that because any other perception of him/her wouldn’t do him/her justice

3. The initial moment where you discover you both feel the same, an explosion occurs inside.

4. Musicals become reality.

5. His/Her presence blows darkness away and everything seems alright in the world

6. More than all right. You can find the perfection underneath the illusion. In fact it’s so obviously there you can’t believe others can’t see it.

7. AKA The world shows its TRUE COLOURS

8. Every house is a castle

9. Each grain of sand becomes a diamond

10. The smallest things (a wave, a look, sitting around doing nothing) become so big

11. Because of this your memory improves tenfold to the point of being photographic

12. The crush/lust element sends bolts of electricity through everything.

13. There’s nothing like a best friend to joke around with, share sorrows, good times and even the boring as hell times.

14. The fact a perfect person is experiencing these moments with you is a great honor, and you wouldn’t have it any other way.

15. You can think “I can RELATE, hell yes” to the cheesiest of love (or friendship) songs

16. Life becomes a place where all the princesses find their prince, and vice versa

17. “You can’t tell your heart to get over someone, because loving is the only thing your heart knows how to do” (aha, see Soheyla, I quoted myself) ;)

18. Even if you drift apart, as friends do in the tide of life, your love will keep on living, because that’s what love does.

19. Other people are happy for you, and maybe, just maybe, start believing that sharing happiness is not only possible, but also inevitable in a world where love is a growing reality.

If I come up with more I'll jot them down, but until then....

Hugs!

Wynter

What Does it Mean to "Have a Life"?

2009-12-06T23:06:00.003+11:00

Everyone uses the term, but does anyone know what the definition is? I once asked this on a forum. Here was the immediate reply:

Not having a life = me

Let me ask you:

What makes you think you don’t have a life?

I know it’s just an expression, but take it literally. If you didn’t have a life, you would be DEAD.

A depressed person could say: “Oh, but I feel dead on the inside”

Is this your personal definition?

Or is it just another way of saying:

“There is nothing interesting happening in my life right now”

“Life sucks”

“I am not proud of where my life is at the moment”

Are you ashamed of your life?

WHY???

Is it because of the way you dress,

the way you look?

What about the way you act?

The things you do?

Do you spend a lot of time doing a certain thing when you “should” be doing other things?

Is “not having a life” just another way of saying “My schedule is currently greatly focused on one particular thing”

Even if it is…

Who said that was a bad thing?

I bet you can’t think of who said that was a bad thing, can you?

Even if you are someone who uses “I have no life” in a light hearted way, take a moment to appreciate all the good you have done in the world, the little things that make people smile. Imagine how crap someone’s day would have been if you hadn’t been there at that specific time and place!

Think of those you make laugh, or even fake it (we can tell if you do, you know!).

At least they’re trying to make you feel welcome.

At least they’re trying to make the world a better place, too.

Be proud of who you are and what you do, because you deserve everything you could possibly set your sights on.

Big hugs and love

Wynter

What is this Site About?

2009-12-06T22:00:00.009+11:00

This blog aims to do different things, depending on which article you choose to read, but it boils down to:

I am trying to help you enjoy life to the fullest.

I am hoping to speed up the de-waffling and filtering of "self help" information process, so you can find your way back "on track" as soon as possible. I am writing a blog based on what "works" and "doesn't" based on my own experience. I'm not saying they will work for you, but Iwould really appreciate it if you tried some of my suggestions out. At least then if they don't work, you can tick another method off your list. :)

With that being said....

Everything written on here is food for thought, and that alone. Take it or leave it.

This site is full of shameless plugs, recommendations and suggestions. It is all my opinion. You don't have to believe or do anything I say. If you hold different beliefs to me then that's fine. Just because I've written about a particular topic on a free blog doesn't mean you have to take it at face value. I've been trying extra hard lately to keep my articles as preach free as I possibly can, so I would like to improve if an article doesn't come off that way. If any article makes you feel uncomfortable feel free to write in an email with your suggested alternative and we can sort things out like civilised people.

If you don't like what I've written [aimed at haters], please consider the following:

1. Give me some Constructive Feedback: with the use of the email address on the sidebar. Please be as specific as you can, and be polite. If you don't make sense I will not respond.

2. Stay Away from this Site: Talk to your friends if you'd like, and complain about how ridiculous this site is (you can't find something better to do?), it really doesn't bother me. What does matter though is that I am making this blog as comprehensive and helpful as I possibly can.

Please remember this as you read these posts.

If you have any feedback or admissions, email them in!

Have fun in your life and good luck with whatever you choose to do.

The Magic of Shane Dawson

2009-12-06T20:41:00.005+11:00

"My name is Shane, and my whole purpose, or my whole reason for being here right now, is to take you guys away from all your bullshit, and all your problems, and all the drama in life- for at least five minutes while you watch one of my videos: make you happy"

- Shane Dawson, "Who are We?" Youtube video, August 13th, 2009

Shane Dawson has over 900 000 subscribers on his main channel and 70+ videos. He comes up with a new video every Saturday, where he talks to the audience about various subjects (annoyances, Miley Cyrus, weird habits, sex, cats, birthdays...). These are often scattered with "acting out the subject topic" humorous skits in which he alternates between different characters (Shanaynay, S. Deezy, Ned the Nerd, Aunt Hilda...)- sometimes with assistance from other actors and actresses (Britani Taylor) on the way.

Before you make any more assumptions, let me introduce to you the lovely Shane, as he plays up the idea of being cocky and business like.

Two cute short films that both stand alone from his other work.

This is what your typical "Shane Vblogs" are structured like. =)

If you want to check out more, his two Youtube Channels can be found here, and here. There you can find links to Myspace, Twitter and Facebook pages.

Not to hype you up Shane, but to share the love! =) You are a Youtube GOD (eh, ironic)

Love and peace to all

Wynter

Remembering Languages Long Forgotten

2009-11-29T13:23:00.003+11:00

I would like to warn my readers, this article is really out there, so if you're comfortable in your current model of reality, continue doing what you were doing before you read this. I just wanted to share because I know they'll be a few that, even if they don't believe it, will find it interesting and something to think about. Peace. xxxx

You gonna read? Okay.

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A couple of months ago on Meditation Night, Reiki Master Jason Irving talked about how kids progression from face-to-face talking to MSN, online chatting and mobile texting are, in the bigger picture, a positive influence opening us up to different levels of communication. If you believe in it, it brings us a step closer to telepathy, because when you're MSN-ing you're more likely to communicate your direct thoughts rather than something put through a filter. This is just what these forms of communication are opening us up to. If you don't believe in telepathy, fine. Pretend you never read this.

When we love ourselves, we can be ourselves, and others open up to us because they sense you are not afraid (in-person communication), and feelings can be contagious (especially the good ones!). This takes away the filter, and you start opening up to other forms of communication, that are different to using words, but are still just, if not more, valid and useful. Jason calls this "the language of love" which... is cheesy but fits. xD

Talking with Eyes
Ever looked at someone and known exactly what they were feeling or thinking? Take it a step further. You can look at each other, not consciously think anything, but still have an entire "conversation" of just 'eye talking'. Ah, this sounds crazy but when it happens to you there's no other way to describe it. You might think "Oh, just looking at each other is totally lame. It's not the same as talking". Yes, it is different, but its so beautiful (and special!) too. I can't describe it to you because it's a form of communication that doesn't use words, but an exchange has definitely occurred. If you ever 'eye talk' with someone, you'll know what I mean, I promise :)

Another one I have recently opened up to is...

Talking with Touch
It sounds incredibly suss, but again, it is something you can only understand and know once you have experienced it. Like looking at people, it speaks its own language, and stands alone in its own unique place. You can be hugged, and pick up what the person is saying with that... because they *are* saying something. Someone could touch you on the head, shoulder... where-ever they may feel tempted to. They are telling you something... if you are in a place to pick up on it.

I know this sounds ridiculous but its to be experienced, and if you don't like the idea then go away and talk to a group of individuals who share your point of view, because I don't want to listen to things I am perfectly capable of understanding without you saying them. Basically, I've heard all the insults before, so commenting is not adding ANYTHING to this or my supposed lack of intelligence, trust me.

Everything I say are merely ideas, food for thought, and you can take away anything you want from it. Whether that's everything, nothing, or just a pissed off attitude, I don't care. Just go away and everyone's happy.

Whatever floats your boat.

David Wilcock talks 2012 Changes

2009-11-11T17:51:00.002+11:00

He normally does conferences to talk about all this information, but has decided change is happening so quickly and its so important he is making it more available. I thought I could help. :)

There's 11 parts to the interview so make sure to watch the others. More updates and feedback from David Wilcock can be found here.

Your Lovers' other Lovers

2009-11-10T20:31:00.002+11:00

This is related to my Polyamory post I wrote here. I wanted to draw the energy to the positives in meeting your lovers other lovers.

I saw one of the ex's of a guy I like today, and was surprised at the peace inside of me. I didn't feel threatened or afraid, in fact, the following occurred to me.

We have a unique dynamic to create a beautiful relationship.

We already have one thing in common without even speaking to each other: love for the same person.

This means we can talk about our lover for as long as we like and enjoy it immensely (unlike friends and family who might get sick of us!) because no one is going to understand the love for him/her better than us two. It's like Jess and Jules in Bend it Like Beckham, or Vivian and Elle in Legally Blonde. They became awesome friends because they liked the same guy!

If your lover is in love with them, then surely you must have similar tastes in people so just so happen to find lots of things in common and things to like about the person.

Why are we afraid? Honestly, love isn't to be scared of. It's gentle and kind, understanding and nurturing.

Think of that friendship you can create!! :)

Lullaby for a Stormy Night

2009-11-08T12:38:00.002+11:00

By Vienna Teng is a piano ballad about comforting someone through a time of pain. It’s very beautiful. The lyrics give a very inspiring metaphor for pain and suffering- that it helps us grow into pretty flowers!! =) Please listen to it if you have time. Buy it on Itunes and support her! Her voice has enormous range and is very pleasing to the ear.

I thought I could post the lyrics here, courtesy of AbsolutelyLyrics.

Little child, be not afraid

Though rain pounds harshly against the glass

Like an unwanted stranger, there is no danger

I am here tonight

Little child, be not afraid

Though thunder explodes a lightning flash

Illuminates your tear-stained face

I am here tonight

And someday you'll know

That nature is so

The same rain that draws you near me

Falls on rivers and land

On forests and sand

Makes the beautiful world that you'll see

In the morning

Little child, be not afraid

Though storm clouds mask your beloved moon

And its candlelight beams, still keep pleasant dreams

I am here tonight

Little child, be not afraid

Though wind makes creatures of our trees

And their branches to hands, they're not real, understand

And I am here tonight

For you know, once even I was a

Little child, and I was afraid

But a gentle someone always came

To dry all my tears, trade sweet sleep for fears

And to give a kiss goodnight

Well now I am grown

And these years have shown

That rain's a part of how life goes

But it's dark and it's late

So I'll hold you and wait

'Til your frightened eyes do close

And I hope that you'll know...

Everything's fine in the morning

The rain'll be gone in the morning

But I'll still be here in the morning

Happy and Sad

2009-11-08T12:36:00.000+11:00

The next time someone asks how you are, answer with what the emotion is, not what your opinion of the emotion is.

Here’s what I mean:

“How are you?”
“Bad”

“How are you?”
“Good”

Although this is mostly something automatic, I think it works on a subconscious level, that sadness, anger is not okay. It might be weird, but there’s nothing wrong with saying:

“I feel depressed”

“I feel happy”

“I feel annoyed”

Etc…

It’s a little more specific too, if that’s any consolation ☺. It detaches us from the hype around our feelings. It’s saying “I am completely at peace with whatever emotion is here”. When you say you feel sad and people become really clingy and need to know what’s going on because feeling sad is not okay- it feels like a real invasion of your personal space. It also shows quite a lot about how they approach their own feelings.

It was just a random idea. Maybe you could try it out. Maybe it won’t do anything, but I thought I could share.

Love

Wynter

The New-Age Paradigm of Time

2009-11-08T12:32:00.000+11:00

There is no ‘time’ worth measuring because:

Everything that has ever happened, or ever will happen, has already happened. What we’re experiencing ‘now’ is all that matters in the grand scheme of things.
We have incarnated to experience, so whatever thoughts; feelings or events have come up at exactly the right time for exactly the right reason. So there’s no point resisting the inevitable. Regardless of how you react or think it’s not going to change the fact those events happened.
Since life goes on forever, it is completely redundant to split up our lives the way we do. I’m not saying what happens doesn’t matter, but if you think about it, it doesn’t really, since you are loved and there’s always going to be a choice for a second chance, rebirth and renewal. This is merely an opportunity to drop all the worry and stress surrounding the outcomes or arrangement of certain events. It allows us to look beyond what we see and feel what the true essence of life is.

Free Will verses Fate / Determinism.
For those who don’t know, Determinism is the idea that if someone knows everything about you at any given moment- your memories, thoughts and feelings, your actions and choices can be easily predicted. So here’s my opinion. You don’t have to agree with me, but maybe keep an open mind?

Free Will and Fate / Determinism both exist simultaneously, it just depends whether you want to view the world from the perspective of an individual, or an all-knowing cosmic force (aka God).

Yes, we do have free will, but the result of all the choices we freely decide end up with a painting called fate. The choices we will decide can be predicted by this painting that illustrates everything. The following is a very simplified example but bear with me.

You’re at a café, with a menu in your hands, and you’re tossing between which drink to get: water, coke or wine. You already know and are experiencing the following things (so they have been painted into the masterpiece of destiny):

You just did a lot of exercise, so are dehydrated and thirsty (leaning towards water, although it could just mean you’ll order more than usual).
It’s early morning and you only drink wine with friends (no to the wine)
You just feel like something sugary for no particular reason at all

I think our hypothetical person will pick coke, don’t you?

So yes, you did make the conscious decision to drink coke, but that doesn’t mean someone couldn’t have predicted you’re every move if they knew what was going on “inside” you.

Taking it a Step Further: Free Will on a New Level of Existence
An experiment is described In The Holographic Universe by Michael Talbot, where 100 or so random people- of different ages, gender, race, and belief systems (Christian, Buddhist, Atheist…etc) were put under hypnosis and were taken back before they were conceived. Every individual, no matter what belief system they had, described the same experience. They were organizing events in their life around a dial circle type thing, along with various friends, which I imagine looks like the Wheel of Fortune card in the Tarot.

When asked about the significance of this experience, the hypnotized test subjects explained; they had chosen these experiences, and major events had a specific purpose for occurring. For example, one rape victim was told she experienced that to learn gratitude. It’s all the learning process, the evolution and growth. Michael Talbot theorized perhaps the subconscious has a way of triggering events in our lives- clicking together like a clock alarm at the right time.

Jason Irving from Spiral of Light elaborated on this concept with ‘we chose everything we are going to experience here before we incarnated: every little thing, from start to end. That’s why people who are really good at astrology can predict exactly when, where and how they are going to die... because it’s already set in stone, and that’s why everything’s going to be all right. We have chosen to experience something, for whatever reason. That’s why you hear people saying God (and/or Gods, Angels… etc) is/are laughing at us. They’re pissing themselves laughing, because we’re making such a fuss- when it’s all going to be fine. They find our dramas very entertaining’ Jason didn’t say where he got this information, but I imagine it was through channeling, since he engages in such things when he wants an answer to something.

Why is this significant? Because it means everything is happening perfectly. The starving children in Africa have chosen to experience that before they came here, the kid who got cancer and fought it off chose to experience this. It’s all about choice, and that is a wonderful, beautiful thing. It’s your destiny to create the life you want to create! It’s comforting and reassuring to know that, no matter how bad something is, you picked this, for a reason you will one day understand when all the pieces of your life start to click together.

“So are we even consciousness at all? Are we just a puppet that we’ve wound up and are now seeing walk around?” I asked
“Pretty much” Dot says
It may sound really depressing, and in a way, it’s derogatory to think of us in this way. We are a lot more precious than a puppet, because we’re alive and are experiencing so many amazing things, whether that is happy or sad. We laugh, smile, love, hate, dance, sing, scream, play, harm, create and cry. It’s everything you could possibly imagine or think about, and that’s how life can be so awesome. And who said being a puppet is a bad thing? We love our dolls and toys. We care about them so much, like they’re human sometimes! Besides, we’re far more detailed and beautiful then any Barbie (or Ken) doll out there. =P

Applying Free Will and Fate to Reality
In Doreen Virtue’s Messages from your Angels, these ‘Angels’ shared the following perspective on the subject (if this is too out there for you, imagine it’s the authors voice). From page 115- I hope it’s okay I put this short quote in here (everyone buy the book!!! lol).

“Q: Is life really based on free will, or is everything predestined?

Free will is left to your discretion as to whether or not to follow the path that is ascribed to you. Yes, there is free will, most certainly. And yet, sometimes you choose not to see life in that way. And that choice of viewpoint is a freewill choice!”

Sometimes you may find yourself confused as to whether something has happened is the way it is supposed to, so you are afraid of whether to move forward or leave a situation where it is. This can be frustrating, but thankfully, this Oracle Card labeled Francesca from Doreen Virtue’s Messages from your Angels deck clears the issue up. Again, hope it’s okay I quote it here.

“You have been asking God and the angels, ‘What is next for me?’ Yet, we have been waiting for you to make that decision for yourself! That’s why you have felt stuck lately. This impasse occurs because you are afraid of making the ‘wrong’ decision. We can help you to decide, but ultimately, the next chapter of your life is up to you.”

Another Doreen Virtue reference, a card from her Healing with the Fairies deck has a life saving affirmation, which I highly recommend you use until its drilled into your psyche. It is actually the most helpful thing ever! Whenever you find yourself stuck and unsure of what to do, repeat:

“I move forward fearlessly, knowing I am guided every step of the way”

It’s not 100% word for word, but that just flows off my tongue better. I hope this will help you with moving forward in future. ☺

Acknowledge your Feelings

2009-11-07T20:40:00.004+11:00

I've started being honest with myself and admitting I feel sad when I do... only a continual pattern arises around me. Most of it was to do with "You can make yourself feel better by thinking positive" and "It's all a mental state".

I know thinking positive does help, and it will bring you to a brighter place, but that doesn't mean your feelings don't exist. I see people say "I'm really good!" with a huge smile on their face, with the usual "How are you?" and I know they're lying, but no one knows how to cope with their feelings so cover it up because it's constantly, constantly there, no matter how buried it may be beneath stones and rubble. I see them laugh, and I know it's all a very well placed mask. We have learned to become excellent actors in this day and age.

People are so out of touch with themselves they can completely, utterly 200% convince themselves they're happy, so when they burst into tears, they wonder "Where on earth did this come from?". They are incapable of telling people how they feel, because they simply don't know. They have cut themselves off from it because they don't want or know how to deal with it.

I'm not saying everyone's faking happiness, but you can tell the happy from the sad very easily. It's in their eyes, you can feel it as they talk to you.

Someone understands

Someone cares about you

Someone can help guide you the way

It could be the next person to ask "How are you?"

Time Slipping

2009-11-07T19:53:00.018+11:00

“You must un-learn what you have learned” – Yoda, Star Wars

Maybe I take my dreams too seriously or believe something is significant when its really just a load of tosh, but someone explained to me in my dream the concept of ‘Time Slipping’ and I wanted to share it with you. What can I say? I thought it was interesting.

Time Slipping is basically the same as Time Travel, just different terminology that better describes the process in which one would travel ‘through’ “time”.

If this sounds too scary or mumbo jumbo to you, I recommend you stop reading now. All this information could easily overwhelm or confuse you, leaving you in a very stuck place in a fork in the road, not sure whether to pick one belief system over the other. It can be frightening, because it opens the prospect of change, so if this does not feel right, please take care of yourself and listen to your heart.

If you do choose to read the following, please remember you can take it or leave it. No one says you have to believe anything I write about, no matter how logical or illogical it may sound. Peace.

I collected all the information about the New Age Paradigm of Time here.

So, back to the original point of the article:

Time Slipping is about physically intervening with a past or future event, rather than simply seeing what is going to happen. Using our typical sci-fi terminology, we are our own time machines. Anyone can know anything they want about the future (or past) if they want.

My gut feeling is that the fabric of space is made of a very wobbly, bizarre substance, similar to clay or psychic ectoplasm type stuff you see in alien or fantasy films, where the person creates blobs of this cosmic goo and plays around with it, simply because they can. I’m thinking of Donnie Darko and the mirror that wobbled, or in the Matrix where Neo puts his finger on the mirror thing and it spreads all over him like a living entity. The world is like an ocean of jelly or playdoh, and you can easily, effortlessly mold and shape it any way you want, any time you want, since it’s always going to be in the liquid/solid state it has always been in. So when you go back to the past, where your past self didn’t meet your future self, you are not “creating a new time line” or whatever. You are just changing the timeline that is already there. If it’s made of a substance you can change, why the heck not?

Then it raises the question that if changing the past will also change your future. Again, my feeling is it doesn’t matter. If you’re going to the past to change something, I sure hope to God you are changing something for the better, and if you have changed something for the better, surely when you slip back into the present, if something has changed, it will be a nice change. Honestly, I don’t think anything would have changed. I get the impression when we live in a world where time slipping is normal and something everyone does, no one will make a big deal out of it like we do today.
“What have you done today?”
“Oh I went back in time and baked cakes with my past self”
“Oooh, lovely. What kind of cake?”

What matters is that you have given yourself peace of mind, and feel love in your heart, for showing your past self how much you respect, love and honor them. Like Taylor Swift sings in her song “Fifteen”, “you wish you could go back and tell yourself what you know now”. Imagine you go back to a point where you felt downright miserable. Imagine how much your past self will smile from your kindness! Maybe ask them if they want to know about what is going to happen concerning a certain situation, and what they would like to know. Leave the communication lines open. Maybe just give them a hug and encourage them to talk about how they feel. Be a friend. Buy them an ice cream or watch a movie together! It’s just these simple little things that will make such a big difference, because you have shown someone very special you love him or her!

So why is it called time slipping? In my dream, it was highly to do with the fact reality is made of this weird liquid, changeable clay goo stuff. Slipping into a specific time and place was like slipping into a shower, or through a shower curtain. It is very easy. It is basically effortless, even slightly pleasant. When I walked through this liquid barrier curtain thing, I would immediately find myself in the certain time period. It’s not an uncomfortable barrier, though. It’s not like going through a waterfall when a tone of liquid is pounding itself on your back. It’s like a transparent gel seal. I’m pretty sure it mirrored your body temperature; it certainly didn’t feel out of the ordinary or shocking to walk through. It definitely had some form of substance and weight, but it isn’t any thing I am familiar with right now.

It is impossible to ‘accidentally’ slip into a time period without asking for it. That’s just stupid, it would create so many problems. It all had to do with intention. You would simply know ‘Hey, when I walk forward I’m going to step through this gel seal thing and slip into this time period at this specific location’. Then it’s done! I really don’t know how to explain it better than that. It’s very easy; it’s very simple. And like anything, the secret is to trust. If something isn’t working, it’s because you don’t believe it, are scared, worried or are not ready to experience something.

I’m not sure which body we use for such an operation. If we use our physical bodies, it probably takes place once we have activated all our 12 strands of DNA instead of just 2, and that’s for a completely different article (Discover Atlantis by Diana Cooper and Shaaron Hutton has a section describing the theory- same with David Wilcock's the Science of Peace). Until then, I imagine it takes place in dreams (astral body) or through our third eyes (in our heads, in other words, but when it is authentic its from a different consciousness).

In my dream, everyone knew how to do this. I would just be doing my own thing, you’d see someone walking towards you, and there’s no way to tell if that’s a present or future self unless they appeared right in front of you. Seeing someone else time slip looks very odd. People just appear out of ‘nowhere’. You’d see individuals appearing and disappearing all over the place- flickering, almost- like they’re in airport transit. There’s something determined about the way they act, walk, look and move, as though they came there for a purpose, and they won’t leave until it’s done. It’s like when you’re at the mall and you came there just to get a specific something you’d seen once before. You power walk through the crowd, weaving your way smoothly and seamlessly past individuals, and no matter what, you never get in anyone’s way.

When do I travel to?

In my dream, I was not concerned with the past because it was never addressed. It was simply explained to me that if your future self slips into your present, you have a choice either to experience whatever they want to experience with you, or do a kind of quantum back=flip and “slip out” of the experience, thus aborting, ‘canceling’ or just saying “No, thanks” as to whatever your future self had in mind- which you could do at any time. That’s all you need to concern yourself with. After all, if you went back into the past, back to when your past self had absolutely no idea about time slipping, you will really, really freak them out. So no need to worry them any more then they need to be! ☺

Slipping out of the future self’s “personal space”, when you want to abandon the idea, was done with intention as well. I sort of leant backwards with the intention of “No thanks piss off”, there was a gush of color as I moved out of the gel seal thing and my future self was gone.

I got the impression as a general rule (out of common sense) you never Time Slip into the future because it just ruins the whole fun and adventure in not knowing what is going to happen- also, unless you find out beforehand what lies in your future, if you just jumped randomly into unknown territory you are going to look like a total idiot. By that point your future self probably knows what you would be up to, and would want to know what the heck you were thinking. With an awkward “Err, I dunno” you would slip back into the ‘present’, blushing and wanting to never experience something so silly again.

In remembering what happens is all looped together, I don’t think it is possible to mess up future events by physically intervening with them… if your intentions are good. Maybe you’ll ask your future self what has been happening, how they are, talk to some of your future friends or explore the sights and see what’s changed (like a tourist!). It could be something to do when you’re bored, but nothing much more than that (Why talk to friends in the future when you can in the present?).

A friend asked me "Could I, in theory, go back to well before I was born?". Yes, you could. The only problem is you'd have to be very familiar with the time period, have some way to disguise yourself otherwise you'll freak everyone out/ cause raised eyebrows..etc. Thankfully if you find yourself in moral peril, you could hide somewhere and slip away! But until our physical bodies are capable of doing this (if its even possible) we have our dreams self to do it.

Questions Answered by my Higher Self

Yes everyone, the process of Time Slipping will always start with your future self approaching you. You will be unable to go back in time before that happens since you'll freak your past self out- and any time your Future self goes back to your past, it will be first experienced by your present self. This morning (9th November) I had a vision of my "future self" saying the following:

"When your future self comes to you, go back in time straight after and tell your past self what you were just told"

OMG that makes so much sense!! I thought. This requires a good memory, as well as patience. Although, repeating the information just helps you drill it into your head. And it only said make the information (main point, not word-for-word) the same. This method helps "balance" out the time line.

Also, I find it interesting this theory of Time Slipping, and reality being made of cosmic, ever-easily-changeable cosmic goo makes ALL time travel movies make sense: Back to the Future, Donnie Darko... because if you're simply changing the time line that already exists, then anything is possible and completely logical! How cool is that?

If anyone has found this article interesting, I recommend you check out The Holographic Universe by Michael Talbot or some videos by David Wilcock. If you believe in the ET ordeal, he has been given information from outside sources that time travel is very possible. When I listened to the theory that backed it, it matched up fairly well with this, which was reassuring.

One day I hope this'll sound more concrete then just a theory... so then I won't sound insane.

I hope this has been interesting

Wynter

*I know in this article I used ‘they’ and ‘them’ when referring to a single individual, but it’s because writing s/he all the time looks messy

Thoughts on Thinking

2009-11-06T06:34:00.005+11:00

I was involved in a group meditation concerning the energy of the crow last night and I received an answer to a question I had posed earlier that day. Because there’s the whole idea of your energy functioning better when you’re in your body and connected to your feelings. Did that mean thinking constantly was bad?

Is thinking a lot or all the time (about a particular person or subject) a bad thing?

At some point in the meditation we were brought to a forest. We had to look for the crows because they were going to tell us where we are supposed to be or go. For me, they were sitting at the top of enormous, amazingly tall pine trees, squawking. For some reason I automatically took the tree to be a metaphor for a person. The top of the tree is the head, the mind. The tree was representative of the human body. So if the crows were sitting at the top of the tree, it meant I was supposed to be in my mind. This confused me.
“But why are you up there? I’ve been in my mind the whole time. I’m supposed to be grounded. This doesn’t make any sense. Could you please clarify where I’m supposed to be?”

Immediately they flew down onto the ground and walked along the grass and crumpled leaves, edging me forwards as if to say ‘Yes, you can do more on the ground but there is also the sky to explore’. This wasn’t expressed in words. It was a wordless understanding. I then flew up with the birds into the sky and was hovering with them.

You are simply flying

“How can I be flying?” my logical self asked. Flying is usually associated with freedom, breaking free, being very grounded, connected to the world and feeling weightless. When people think constantly, it can be because they feel the complete opposite of these things and want to… fly above it.

Here was the understanding I received from the meditation:

Even though when you are on the ground you can feel and experience all the details, flavors, smells and texture the earth has to offer, the sky has its own unique treasures. When you are thinking (flying), you can see everything from a different place, from someplace high up. Everything looks smaller, insignificant, but this doesn’t make it wrong. It’s simply a different experience. You can feel the wind in your hair, air on your skin; you can feel detached from the rest of the world. You can float without a care in the world. You can come down whenever you want, too, and if you want to fly up there for a while, why the heck not? You’re a bird, and you have wings for a reason! ;)

Let yourself breathe the summer air; hang around in the clouds for a while. It’s a new, refreshing thing to experience, an exciting one, like taking a plane for the first time or maybe soaking in a cold pool with no one around. Seriously, haven’t you always wanted to fly?

We are always flying, just sometimes at different altitudes (and who wants to fly at the same place all the time? Talk about boring!)

I hope I have explained the concept in a way that makes sense to you (if not please let me know). If you don't want to believe the information then that's fine. Take it or leave it, but the information just made sense to me so I thought 'Why not? Let's post it'.

I hope it has eased your consciousness.

Wynter

ET Phone Home- Insert X Files Theme Here

2009-11-05T17:36:00.002+11:00

Female FBI Agent: This is the worst assignment we've ever been on

Male FBI Agent: Even worse than the missing Whale's from Sea World?

Female FBI Agent: No, this is much more annoying. C'mon. Let's go. I've had enough of this.

- The Simpsons

C'mon everyone, extra terrestrials are not that scary. If they wanted to kill us, they would have found a way to do so by now, and there are enough violent psychopaths on planet earth as it is. A while ago I linked about a bunch of important scientist type individuals going on a trek to make ET contact. Apparently it was a great success, so read more in the link to see the official, specific, very authentic sounding information about what happened and what is going to happen now.

If they're making it up, it's a big claim they're making, so if they mess up, heads are going to roll (possibly quite literally!).

I hope you open your minds

Wynter

The Science of Peace

2009-11-05T17:27:00.002+11:00

I already mentioned this in another post, but thought it was definitely worth re-mentioning since it's so unbelievably amazing and awesome. I've just copied the article word for word from the Divine Cosmos website, but check it out. This article is NOT mine! Spread the word, and you'll spread smiles! (whether that's a shrewd 'Wow, you're so messed up' smile or not remains to be seen).

The Science of Peace

Is there a "consciousness field" of "radiant mind energy" that we all share? Is this field causing "Global Warming" on Earth... and similar effects throughout the entire solar system?

Does the Field have any effect on DNA, including the ability to completely transform one species into another? Is such a 21st-century model of evolution actually happening to us... right now?

Is this 'Mind Field' the ultimate answer to solving financial collapse, terrorism, violent crime and all manner of Earth Changes, leading to a true Science of Peace? ...

Yes!

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Eventually the metaphysical field will catch up with these truths, but why wait... when you can tune into this revolution in consciousness right now?

Toni Carmine Salerno

2009-10-31T16:46:00.002+11:00

An inspirational artist, Toni Carmine Salerno has made oracle cards (two of which I own!) and has prints available for sale online. Seriously, check it out. They're so beautiful and radiant; they have AMAZING energy.

Here's Gallery 1 but be sure to check out all of them - you might find something you want!

There Will Be Brawl

2009-10-29T19:59:00.003+11:00

Anyone familiar with Super Smash Bros, Melee or Brawl will get the kick out of this online mini series. A live action parody series with all your favorite characters, it mixes drama, humor, action and mystery into a whole lot of fun. You can view the episodes here.

Thankfully, it's well made with superb acting, editing, costumes and etc so it's well worth taking a look at. Only for mature audiences though ;) Have fun!

Why you Should Start Bothering to Take Care of Yourself

2009-10-25T16:22:00.003+11:00

If you're one of those people who feel there is no point taking care of yourself, because it wouldn't change anything or the results would still be the same, I am here to prove you wrong. Putting in the effort to take care of yourself is very rewarding, and after a while there's no effort, simply habit, that you are relaxed to engage in.

1. You can look at photos of yourself and not cringe

2. You can look back at how you were at a certain point and feel like you've gotten better

3. You can walk around a public place and feel confident no one is judging or going to hurt you

4. You can wake up in the morning, look in the mirror and smile at how cool you look, even if your hair is a mess

5. You can experience change on a daily basis and all your daily activities glow with life

6. You can strut like Bart Simpson does in the Jessica episode, and feel like you deserve it

7. New things are all around, and an adventure lies in each passing minute

8. When someone asks how you're going, you can proudly say "Fantastic" or "No, I'm not too good"

9. You can have a shower and feel comfortable you look adorable just the way you are

10. Activities that used to feel like chores suddenly seem appealing to laugh at (from how stupid they are)

11. You can meet new people who match your newly found frequency

12. Old friends who used to insult you are no longer allowed in your circle of awesome

13. You can flick your hair and feel like someone is admiring you for it

14. The cloud of constant awkwardness is lifted - you are free

15. It's easier to make your own choices - no one can stop you

16. Your dreams are going to happen no matter what - you feel and know this with all your heart

17. Shopping for clothes and girly accessories suddenly becomes exciting

18. You feel lighter, healthier and whole

19. Having long showers or grooming sessions become a nice past time when you're bored

20. You can look people in the eye when they look at you

21. You can say "Thank you" when someone compliments you because you know it's true

22. If someone gets pissed off at you, they can go screw themselves until they feel better or get lost

23. Even if mess up now and again, at least you tried your best at the time

24. When someone says "I love you", you feel warm inside instead of threatened

25. Although there are tough times, life remains a masterpiece

26. You can express your opinion and feel confident someone actually listened to you

27. When they laugh or agree you know your opinion wasn't so bad after all

28. When you feel bad and admit it, others admit they feel the same

29. They show how much they care, feel understood and

30. You realize being exactly where you are isn't such a bad thing after all

31. Because every moment you're getting closer

32. Expanding your circle and growing larger

34. Full of love and life and splendor

35. You don't know why you thought "I can't be bothered"

Lots of love

Wynter

Feel Good Australia

2009-10-25T15:53:00.002+11:00

It's a company whose products are only available in Target (for the moment). I bought some Planet Earth body butter and shower gel today, and... I'm promoting it. It's naturally made, has stylish, solid packaging, smells nice, feels awesome and, like all creams, helps keep your self esteem afloat and female energy balanced.

Just thought if you have to buy any body creams, those ones are affordable (10- 20$) and why not keep the earth a little happier?

The 13th Chakra

2009-10-21T11:26:00.002+11:00

I just wanted to link to this article I found when looking the 13th Chakra up for a reading I did... It made a few things clearer to me; such as the pink colour of love is unconditional love in the 13th chakra, whereas the green relates to the heart chakra. It's a nice little article if you care to read it. :)

Some Light on Non Movement and its Place in Society

2009-10-17T20:04:00.005+11:00

I was wondering why “manipulative” and “attention seeking” behaviour is labelled as a bad thing, since I’ve never felt there is anything wrong with it, unless they* are not interested in changing their* behaviour (that’s okay too it’s just an unfair waste of effort, time and energy on your half) so asked the universe to give me some clarity and insight.

A picture of Aphrodite appeared in my head, so I asked what she wanted to say. I got:

“You’re resting, that’s all it is”

What followed was a tidal wave of images and messages that appeared so quickly I was not in a state to question where it came from, so I have no idea if it was my imagination, my subconscious or what, but I imagine it was Aphrodite (if you believe in this stuff anyway) because I learnt a great deal. Here are the various clumps of understanding I picked up.

THE STATE OF NON MOVEMENT

Sometimes people are so miserable and in such a horrible place that they don’t feel like doing anything. They have given it all they’ve got, are so exhausted and overworked they shut down. This happens a lot with depressed people. It signifies an unbalance of energy- usually a mix of exterior and interior factors, but that’s not what this article is about. If your life is in desperate need of a make over, the perfect way to start over page might help.

This state can happen to people with the best of intentions- they may want to feel better now and they don’t want to endure pain, but there is currently nothing they can do except wait. Often we try to think through our feelings, saying: “there’s nothing we can do about it, it’s for the best…” but it’s still okay to feel sad about something. What’s important is taking steps towards nurturing yourself and doing your best (that’s all we can do, anyway).

There is always a period of endurance, as you wait for a therapist appointment to approach or circumstance to end, so until that time comes, please hang in there. Until then, here are some ways to help someone involved.

If you know someone in a state of non-movement...

Some of the following ideas may seem juvenile or strange, so use your intuition as to whether your friend will appreciate the gesture. It’s important you do this for them, because they may be working very hard to take care of themself, but things just aren’t working. What they need is someone to show love, respect and understanding without being overbearing.

1. Make sure to protect yourself and cut your cords regularly when around such a person.
This is really important. If you get drained or pick up his or her heaviness, it’s not going to help anyone. Keep shielded and everyone’s happy!

2. Ask if everything is all right
Common sense, really. If they lie or do not want to talk about it, don’t try and force it out of them. Let them know you’re there if they want to talk about it, and let them rest. If they want to, they’ll come spill.

3. Offer a Drink
Either a glass of water, mug of herbal caffeine-free tea or hot water with lemon and honey- use your intuition as to which one. Just remember to keep it caffeine free- caffeine can make someone think a lot more, faster, and get fidgety, and they need relaxation above all else. Even if they don’t want it, leave it nearby. They’ll warm up to it eventually.

4. Keep them warm and cosy
Offer a blanket and/or some pillows, so they have something to snuggle up to. Again, if they don’t want it, leave it nearby in case they change their minds later. If you can, turn on the heating or light up the fireplace.

5. Nurturing the ‘Inner Child’
If they have favourite stuffed toys, put them next to them to give them company. Also, its times like these when knitting a homemade jumper or scarf can be very much appreciated.

6. Encourage them to Focus on their Breathing
With each out breath, feel the pain ebbing away and descend into heavenly bliss. It may sound dumb, but it works!

7. Offer to give a Beauty Treatment
This can be: a massage, washing their hair, brushing it, making it look pretty, putting cream on, giving a facial… The power of human touch is very beautiful. Psychologists found newborns that were held developed healthier immune systems, organs that worked properly and were more likely to survive in trauma. :) This is better for them than a constant array of cuddles, since it makes them feel loved, relaxed and beautiful at the same time! It’s important to allow personal space and distance. If you were giving them an hour-long cuddle, you’re setting yourself up for energy being zapped.

8. Clear the Energy of the Space they are in
Light a scented soy candle and put it nearby (where it’ll be safe!), a plant (to move the energy around), a large amethyst crystal or whatever you feel is appropriate.

9. Surrender them to the Light
Yes, this is a very new-age thing to do, but I find it helps. Ask Archangel Michael, Raphael, the person’s spirit guides, or whoever wants to help, to surround them with love and keep them protected- whatever you want. Then say thank you and move on.

10. Leave the Door Open
Once you’ve done the things you want, say “If you want me to do something else for you or repeat something then you’re more than welcome to ask”. Ask for Archangel Michael, Raphael or your spirit guides to clear away any toxic energies you might have picked up, and let them go. Now you can go do your own thing!

Possible Consequences
If your loved one falls asleep while you’re doing some of these things, that’s great. It means they can heal on a deeper level. It’s adorable too (our loved ones look angelic when they sleep, yes?). Simply ask the sleep balances their sleeping pattern. Chances are they want to sleep anyway, so let them. If they cry, it means they feel safe with you, and chances are they want to cry or let things out, so let them. Go with the flow. If nothing really changes, oh well. You’ve had a wonderful opportunity to love someone.

Isn’t this an insult to their intelligence?
This may seem like the kind of thing you do for a sick person, and in a sense, they do need the same attention and nurturing, but allow balance and the ability for them to make their own choices. If you do too much for them, they’ll feel guilty and the need to repay you. This unbalances the energy again- so you wouldn’t have helped them at all. The trick is to be gentle, stay very grounded and in your own space. Which is why I suggest you stick with what I have suggested above.

REMEMBER THEY'RE JUST RESTING!

When we’re on a bush walk, we don’t hike the whole day. There comes a point where we’re on the verge of collapsing and need to replenish our energy levels. You don’t see people playing a basketball game without quarters or time out. It’s so they don’t kill themselves on the court! It’s the same with this. They’re tired and need time out.

If you are the person who doesn’t feel like doing anything

You can send someone you trust this link then bring the subject up, or organize an appointment for a facial, haircut, massage…somewhere you can rest and feel nurtured simultaneously. Again, if you could use more ‘emotional intelligence’ the perfect way to start over page has some ideas.

That’s all. I hope this has helped- once again, take it or leave it. It's your choice.

Wynter

* I know I keep addressing a singular person in plural, but if I write s/he or his/her constantly it looks messy, so please forgive my grammar. Thank you.

Sacred Love Lists

2009-10-17T20:03:00.005+11:00

The angels/spirit guides/ whatever you want to call them told me that writing a list of all the things you love about someone helps keep a relationship at the highest frequency/plane possible. It doesn’t matter if the qualities you admire are physical. Physical qualities are related to sexuality, which is important in a relationship. If you want, show the person your list once you’re done.

Although this is mainly concerned with romantic relationships, it can be used for anything. If you want, write it in pink to symbolize love and keep the list somewhere special where it can be constantly updated. I've written one, it's got 62 things listed, and I thought I'd have half a page :)

Lots of Love

Wynter

Astrology the Diagnostic Tool for Body, Mind and Spirit

2009-10-13T15:44:00.000+11:00

Here's a quick little article I wanted to link on astrology!

100+ Ways to Nurture Yourself

2009-10-08T17:07:00.006+11:00

Thanks to the lovely Survivor Journey and Ezine Articles websites, located here and here, but I wanted to put them both in one place.

As always, these are suggestions. If you don't want to do some, don't.

Survivor Journey's Tips on Ways to Nurture Yourself

1. Be yourself. Be less concerned with what others think of you.

2. Buy a coloring book and have at it. I was told that it's perfectly OK to color outside of the lines!

3. Compliment people and appreciate the positive things they do

4. Create a special spot in your home that you can go to relax and release

5. Dance or move to music

6. Daydream

7. Decorate your home for the seasons

8. Do something nice for someone else. Help carry packages, smile at them, say hello, give them a card just because.

9. Embrace your flaws and faults. Everyone has them.

10. Everyone should own a pair of PJ's with the feet. Trap door in back, not a necessity.

11. Find a good book and totally immerse yourself in the story

12. Find small joys in everyday life

13. Give yourself a hand and foot massage, then a manicure and pedicure

14. Give yourself permission to splurge on your favorite food occasionally

15. Go shopping and use all of your senses. Smell the fruit, feel the silk pajamas, listen to the crowd, people watch.

16. Go to a movie, concert, out to eat.....alone. It's very liberating, aside from the all too frequent question "Only One." If you want to scare them, you can always pretend to "talk" to your imaginary friend or say "No, I'm dining with myself tonight."

17. Have dreams, ambitions, and goals for yourself

18. It's OK to be silly sometimes

19. It's OK to let your emotions out. Just make sure you are safe.

20. Keep a Journal and write out your feelings

21. Laugh at your mistakes. Often they are very funny!

22. Laugh..... out loud

23. Learn to breathe deep, causing your stomach to rise and fall

24. Learn to just be able to be. Clear your mind. Often easier said than done!

25. Learn to live life mindfully. Work on staying in the present and focus on what is happening RIGHT NOW!

26. Listen to relaxing music or sounds you like and find comforting

27. Look at yourself in the mirror and compliment all of your positive attributes. YES...EVERYONE has something they like about their body! Find what you like!

28. Make a collage of your life or things you find special

29. Make a list of all of the positive things in your life or things you enjoy. Refer to that list when you are having a bad day.

30. Make and decorate sugar cookies

31. Meditate or pray by saying words that are comforting and personal to you.

32. Play often. It doesn't matter if it's with fingerpaints, colors, clay, Legos, kite flying, sailing a boat. Whatever you enjoyed as a child, continue to do that. Why should kids have all the fun?

33. Relax in a hot tub

34. Read your favorite childhood story or a great collection of poetry.

35. Sing your favorite song as loud as you can with fake microphone and/or instruments. Not a good one to try at the office!

36. Slide on the park slide. Play on the park swings.

37. Spend at least 30 minutes everyday for something you enjoy

38. Spend time with people who truly care about you. Don't waste time on those who don't.

39. Star gaze. Learn about constellations and see if you can locate them in the massive night sky.

40. Stay in bed for an entire day and take the phone off of the hook. Read, watch TV, eat a special food, have a movie marathon.

41. Take a class. Learn something new, just for fun.

42. Take a walk in nature and collect special items and place them in a pretty basket in your home to remind you of that walk

43. Take a warm bath with lots of fragrant bubbles and candlelight

44. Treat yourself once in a while. Buy a new book, item of clothing, magazine, toy, craft project, flowers, a special food. Anything that is a special treat for you.

45. Try a new hobby. Something you've been really wanting to try and don't be concerned with the final product.

46. Watch a good movie. Pick a type of movie that you normally wouldn't see. Diversify!

47. Wear your favorite color, even if it's purple or bright aqua

48. Write a letter to someone you admire. You don't have to send it, just get the words and feelings on paper.

49. Write or draw out your dreams

50. Write out your life's story

Helene Rothschild's 50 Ways to Nurture Yourself

1. Take a bubble bath

2. Buy myself roses

3. Take a sauna (- a small room used as a hot-air or steam bath for cleaning and refreshing the body)

4. Get a massage

5. Take a bath by candlelight

6. Have breakfast in bed

7. Go to the pet store and play with the animals

8. Visit the zoo

9. Walk on a scenic path

10. Stop and smell the flowers

11. Have a manicure or pedicure

12. Wake up early and watch the sunrise

13. Watch the sunset

14. Relax with a good book and/or soothing music

15. Light the fireplace for myself

16. Play my favorite music and dance to it by myself

17. Go to bed early

18. Sleep outside under the stars

19. Stay in bed all day when I'm well

20. Fix a special dinner just for me and eat by candlelight

21. Participate in my favorite sport

22. Go for a walk

23. Take a walk in the rain

24. Run on the beach

25. Take a scenic drive

26. Meditate

27. Buy new underpants

28. Browse in a book or record store for as long as I want

29. Buy myself a cuddly stuffed animal

30. Write myself a love letter and mail it

31. Ask a special person to nurture me (examples: feed, cuddle, read to me)

32. Buy myself something special that I can afford

33. Go see a good film or show

34. Go to the park and feed the ducks, swing on the swings, etc.

35. Visit a museum or other interesting place

36. Go to the harbor and listen to the boats

37. Have a facial

38. Give myself a facial

39. Go into a hot tub or Jacuzzi

40. Record an affirmation tape

41. Write down my goals

42 Call an old friend

43. Bake or cook something special

44. Go window shopping

45. Buy a meditation tape

46. Listen to a positive, motivation tape

47. Write in my special book all my wins for the day

48. Gently apply a fragrant lotion all over my body

49. Call a new, supportive friend

50. Tell myself all the things I appreciate and love about me, and give myself a big hug.

Some Light on Sadness (and other emotions that don't feel so good)

2009-10-08T17:01:00.005+11:00

Hey

A few weeks ago I meditated on what lesson I had to learn from this pain in my chest (which wouldn't go away no matter what I was doing!) and got:

"I don't care whether you're happy or sad. I love you just the way you are".

Even though it's in first person, it gave me an understanding.

It made me realize emotions don't matter--- I mean, it does matter, but not really since people love you. People put a huge focus on whether they are happy or sad, getting worked up on it when they don't need to. Life isn't about happy or sad. It's about "I love you", and that's it. You are loved, dearest friend. All of you. Far more than you could know. :)

If people have a problem with you feeling or acting a certain way, they are not comfortable with that within themselves. It's interesting because when someone insults something, you learn that "Hey, you think that about yourself".

Hope this has helped you guys

Lots of love + Peace.

xxxx

Wynter

When you’re Sick: Rest and Introspect

2009-10-04T16:15:00.002+11:00

This is something I thought of spontaneously.

“Hey, when you use the phrase 'I’m sick of…' when you are tired of something, aren’t you telling yourself why you are sick?”.

According to Barbara Ann Brennan's books, illness is a result of imbalance and forgetting our true nature, so when you get sick, the question to ask yourself is “What am I sick and tired of experiencing in my life?”

For example “I am sick of people treating me like crap”
You’re saying “I am sick from people treating me like crap”

Feel free to complain as much as you want. Let it flow. This could give you some insight as to the cause of your illness, allowing you to take responsibility and create something better.

It’s just an idea but it sounded reasonable to me

Best of luck.

Patience

2009-10-04T16:05:00.002+11:00

Patience and getting in touch with the yin energy is something everyone learns how to do at some point if you're working consciously with the Law of Attraction. It's the balancing act that brings your desire to fruition. The yin says "I've done all I can. Let's focus on something else".

Here's an excerpt from Everyday Osho: 365 Daily Meditations for the Here and Now. It's topic number 344 page 339. I've cut it down a little bit, but kudos to Osho!

"Love is patient…. And once you understand that to be patient is to be loving, and to be patient is to be in prayer, then everything is understood.

Become a receiving end- be patient and just wait. Wait with deep love, playfulness, gratitude- gratitude for that which has already happened and for which is going to happen. Ordinarily the human mind does just the opposite."

Youtube Singers!

2009-10-02T19:42:00.008+10:00

Youtube is the home of many fan-sung covers of various songs. These are some highly praised singers on youtube. Just thought I'd introduce them to you all. :)

phlllypepper1000 - Phil Schawel

He's released an album, available on Itunes, called "New Life". Here's a cover of "We Are Broken" by Paramore.

eradecastro - Era de Castro

Here's a cover of "Cry" by Kelly Clarkson.

hchsknights08- Alyssa Bernai

Here's a cover of "You Belong with Me" by Taylor Swift.

MeganandLiz- Megan & Liz

Here's a cover of "Battlefield" by Jordin Sparks. They've got an original song "6th Sense" on Itunes! Very cool :)

cjlimusic- CJ Li

This is a cover of Pieces - Sum 41. She's done quite a few covers as well as an album of originals, available on Itunes by the name "What If". Her style and voice is incredibly similar to Avril Lavigne, so if you like her, check out CJ!!

AhrenBa- Ahren Baesler

Here's a cover of "You're Beautiful" by James Blunt.

Ginarae- Gina Rae

This is a cover of "The Noose" by a Perfect Circle. She's done quite a few covers and originals, and Myspace Records look interested in creating music with her so check it out!

zeldaxlove64- Christina Grimmie

She's done some GORGEOUS covers, although no originals or CD yet. This is a piano cover of "When you Look me in the Eyes" by the Jonas Brothers.

boyceavenue- Boyce Avenue, a Florida-based band popular for its strong acoustic roots and melodic rock sound, consists of the three brothers Alejandro, Fabian, and Daniel Manzano. [from Youtube Channel]. They've released a full CD on Itunes, with videos, so check it out!!

Tiffyiffyiffy- Tiffany Eugenio is still looking out for a record company to pick her up, but it's bound to happen because her voice is amazing.

I probably missed out heaps so if you see someone who has made a considerable impact on the Youtube community, feel free to write in the comments or email us!! Thanks!

Electronic Music Radio 24/7

2009-09-30T20:55:00.002+10:00

If you want some new music to listen to, tune into DI Digitally Imported!

You can tune into many different radio channels which play different types of electronic music 24/7.

I suggest you check it out - it's pretty chill, and fun to listen to. Very useful! Listen to teh musics, here.

"Esoteric Roach" Fractal Images

2009-09-30T20:51:00.008+10:00

This website has some really beautiful fractals!

Remember to read the Terms of Use.

Check out the backgrounds! They're amazing.

Awesome pictures, unite!

A Vision of a Soon-to-Be Functional Polyamorous Community

2009-09-30T18:59:00.016+10:00

A year ago in my Social Psychology class we were watching a documentary that interviewed adults in a poly marriage. Everyone thought it sounded weird in a bad way. I was the only one who thought there was any merit in the practice. This is an intuitive gut feeling I have always had and can not ignore even with all the negative pestering from friends, parents and the countless number of negative experiences described by forum members currently in polyamorous relationships.

I honestly believe Polyamory can be a beautiful, more solid grounding for the future of human relationships and I wrote this to share how and why this is possible.

WHAT IS POLYAMORY?

According to Mac's Dictionary application, Polyamory is described as "the philosophy or state of being in love or romantically involved with more than one person at the same time.".

I linked a book recommendation here for people who are interested more in learning about the particular lifestyle.

LIKE MONOGAMY: POLYAMORY BALANCES DEEP FRIENDSHIP WITH LUST

As stated by many people, polyamory is not about having sex with everything that moves (Brian from Queer as Folk, anyone?). I myself, have had many opportunities to have spontaneous sexual relations with individuals, and find it simply impossible to carry out (I may have wanted to, trust me). The most I can do with friends is give them cuddles. I feel uncomfortable with anything else unless I am in a relationship with them. I need to know the person first. It's like seeing a random stranger strip in front of you in the street. No thanks!

JEALOUSY TEACHES US TO LOVE OURSELVES

Everyone knows that jealousy is unhealthy, so why do people get jealous over our loved ones feeling attracted to more than one person? It happens to everyone! I know you get it too, and whenever you feel it your first instinct is "Man, life would be so much easier if my partner just chilled out about this". Why deny what is natural for us? Why put so much shame over something we have no control over, no matter how much we might want to?

It doesn't even matter. Chances are, the person you feel attracted to is not your type in the personality department, so you wouldn't be interested in having a romantic relationship with them anyway. The chances of finding an individual you admire for their spirit and emotions as well as body is a smaller percentage of the population. But it is possible to find such a person.

Jealousy is a symptom of a lack of trust and low self esteem. So whenever you feel jealous, it is a sure sign to start nurturing yourself more and doing some affirmation work.

POLYAMORY AND MORALITY

Before I even knew about the concept of polyamory, I told my partner at the time that if they wanted to cheat on me, they could and I'd be okay with it, because I'd rather they'd let me know what is going on in their lives and feel comfortable around me then having to hide lots of awkwardness and dread inside. I wanted the relationship to be sustained despite the fact they have feelings for someone else. However, they decided it was "wrong" so refused to "cheat" on me even if they felt such tendencies.

How is having multiple relationships with others wrong? Do animals care about how many relationships they have with one another? Do you see puppy dogs attacking each other because of what their "partner" does? I am not insulting us as a species, but lust is very much an instinct, and dogs, cats, whatever animal it may be, are completely happy doing what they do. They let themselves flow in any particular moment. They love and let it be. Wouldn't it be wonderful if human beings could be as co-operative, loving and joyful as our favorite canine companions? This is something I believe is completely possible, and inevitable in the near future.

THE WEIRDNESS FACTOR

People find polyamory "weird" because it is something they are unfamiliar with and not used to. I think this is where things are changing. Even now there is a concept of an "open relationship" which is pretty much the same as polyamory, just sounding nicer. The unfamiliar part of polyamory is seeing your loved one having a relationship with someone else and being okay with it.

I believe Polyamory is the way of the future for a number of reasons. It says:

- You know, I'm totally satisfied being with one person, but if I see someone else that I love as a person and want to be involved with, why not? That's okay too

- Yay! I no longer have to hide how I feel about others. We can share our feelings for others openly, and our relationship will eventually blossom as a result from this vulnerability, openness and trust

- You can let your partner know anything. Even if your relationship is unhealthy or unsatisfying (as relationships can be) you can either offer to fix it or dump them (these rules still stand, people!)

- The love and learning is infinite. You can learn as much as you want about that (other) special person and feel comfortable feeling you know them inside out- learning their fears, dreams, secrets, past....

- There is more variety, more color and more people to meet in the world. You can become good friends with the other people your loved one is involved with/or whichever way around it goes. More laughs, more fun, relaxing comfortable atmosphere's around everyone involved.

-Then of course there's the sexual side of it (which isn't the main reason why I want to be polyamorous!), where threesomes and group orgies will be a lot more frequent and common

IT'S TIME TO OPEN UP TO OUR FULL POTENTIAL TO LOVE

I believe polyamorous relationships open us up to our ‘true nature’, rather than doing a painful ‘ew this feels wrong’ extending of ourselves. I believe healthy, loving, balanced (ect….) Polyamorous relationships is a natural lifestyle/function we all know how to easily maintain. It's just a matter of getting used to a new set of rules/ideas, and letting go of the old one, like changing from an automatic car to manual- at first its dodgy, but if you both understand the dynamics of how it works, with enough practice and patience it will be something you can achieve without effort.

It merely requires people who have the tools to keep their psychological outlook and emotions at bay (Question: Are you Happy?) and are able to keep one relationship alive (can't do two without one!). If you feel you fit the above two categories and believe the idea of sustaining happiness and a functional polyamorous relationship is easy, then you rock!! :)

Being able to balance time between these relationships and developing a higher level of trustwith your honey is the key.

DEALING WITH STRESS IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS

In Doreen Virtue's "Messages from your Angels" the following message is very relevant:

"Only through casting your inevitable cares and worries to the true source of love, God, can a partnership remain on the highest plane possible. If the partners are willing to do this together, so much the better. Then, there is hope that romantic love will continue to be a shelter in the storm, instead of a mirage that cruelly offers sustenance that doesn't exist" - Angels through Doreen Virtue, page 47, on "Romantic Love"

If you don't believe in this, then it's that's fine. It's basically: Always look on the bright side of life- as Monty Python say. :)

In a nutshell, use the Law of Attraction/ Ask your spirit guides, Higher Sources or angels to help you with anything you come across. Tell them your feelings, fears, hopes, dreams, be specific as you can as to what you want, thank them and trust they have worked it all out for you, because they have and they love you! :)

I'm not saying there aren't a few challenges in polyamorous relationships, but this will become easier to deal with as more people get into polyamory and there are more people to learn from.

THE STI ORDEAL

New Age books (such as Barbara Ann Brennen's) have claimed that many STI's and cancers nowadays have stemmed from the guilt and shame around sex and intimacy. From this point of view, it is more likely they'll be cleared up from a polyamorous community, and I reckon you could pray to be protected from disease (as well as using contraception and various other preventatives of course!) and everything will work out perfectly fine (placebo effect).

If you do receive an STI after all your careful preparation methods, there are always ways to get rid of it (Reiki) and if you don't believe in this sort of treatment, there's always the Placebo effect.

THE FEARS

These are easy enough to detach yourself of. When we live in a community where polyamory is the norm, no one will care if you are dating someone else. It will just be the norm, as much as 'cheating is wrong' at the moment is the norm. It won't be a big deal if your partner is going out with more than one person, because you will be too! Why not? It's fair! Everyone will be very accepting and comfortable with it. "Cool. You're going out with someone else? That's wonderful, what's their name?"

EXERCISE: Uncovering and Releasing Fear

Imagine you are in a polyamorous relationship. Your loved one has been seeing someone else, and you're having a moment alone. What do you ask them, or what are you afraid of? Allow whatever worries to come to the surface, no matter how crazy they sound. It is very important to express this and get a response. :) Then the love can blossom between you two.

Whenever I do this, one major fear comes up for me.

"Do you like her more than me or are forcing yourself to stay with me when you'd rather be spending time with her? Because you can hang out with her whenever you like, or you can leave me, I don't care, as long as you're happy. I just want you to be comfortable around me, and if you don't like me anymore just let me know and I'll stay away"

Personally, if my partner was asking me about my polyamorous relationship I'd say:

"No honey. I love you to bits, you know I do, don't you? What I have with you is very special and if I want to go do something, I'll let you know. I'm staying with you because I love your company and love you."

Think about it. No two relationships are exactly alike. The bond you have is unique and equally beautiful just the way it is. It's like comparing whether you like one best friend over another. It just doesn't happen, because they're both awesome but too special to be compared!!

THE TRUE NATURE OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE?

If you believe in channeled information Discover Atlantis by Diana Cooper contained an interesting yet similar perspective. When people got married in "Atlantis" they didn't exchange rings or vows because they believed you couldn't 'own' another person since people have free will and are allowed to make their own choices. The couple respected this freedom and element of individual choice. They stayed together out of pure unconditional love, and if they somehow drifted away, the love would remain between them in an everlasting bond, much how friends drift away naturally in time but still love each other regardless. This is something I firmly believe is the 'truth'.

I am sick of all the negativity. Last time I checked, having your partner say "You can do whatever you want. Go after this guy/girl" is a very selfless, brave, beautiful thing to do. Amen.

That's it. I hope this has helped you in-vision a world where love is all there is, and an openness to more than one relationship at a time is the norm. I also hoped this has opened your mind and maybe you'll consider the possibility (although no one's saying you have to listen to or do anything I say).

Best wishes!

xxxx

Wynter

Symptoms of Spiritual Awakening

2009-09-04T12:45:00.002+10:00

As taken from the Universal Psychic Guild in a post by Victoria_210:

I found the original (white on black hard) to read so here is the (abridged) document:
Peace and Love, Ellen ellen@hevanet.com SYMPTOMS OF SPIRITUAL AWAKENING

1. Changing sleep patterns: restlessness, hot feet, waking up two or three times a night. Feeling tired after you wake up and sleepy off and on during the day.
There is something called the Triad Sleep Pattern that occurs for many: you sleep for about 2-3 hours, wake up, go back to sleep for another couple of hours, wake again, and go back to sleep again. For others, the sleeprequirements have changed. You can get by on less sleep.
Lately I have been experiencing huge waves of energy running into my body from the crown. It feels good, but it keeps me awake for a long time, then subsides.

2. Activity at the crown of the head: Tingling, itching, prickly, crawling sensations along the scalp and/or down the spine. A sense of energy vibrating on top of the head, as if energy is erupting from the head in a shower. Also the sensation of energy pouring in through the crown, described as "sprinkles".

This may also be experienced as pressure on the crown, as if someone is pushing his/her finger into the center of your head. As I mentioned in #1, I have been experiencing huge downloads of energy through the crown.
In the past, I have felt more generalized pressure, as if my head is in a gentle vise. One man related that his hair stood on end and his body was covered with goosebumps.

3. Sudden waves of emotion. Crying at the drop of a hat. Feeling suddenly angry or sad with little provocation. Or unexplicably depressed. Then very happy. Emotional roller coaster. There is often a pressure or sense of emotions congested in the heart chakra (the middle of the chest). This is not to beconfused with the heart, which is located to the left of the heart chakra.

4. Old "stuff" seems to be coming up, as described above, and the people with whom you need to work it out (or their clones) appear in your life. Completion issues.

5. Changes in weight.

6. Changes in eating habits: Strange cravings and odd food choices. Some find they are not as hungry as they used to be. Or hungrier.

7. Food intolerances, allergies you never had before: As you grow more spiritual, you are more sensitive to everything around you. Your body will tell you what it can no longer tolerate, as if it, too, is sloughing off what doesn't serve it anymore. You might be cleansing yourself of toxins. Some people find they often have a white residue in their mouth, much like that of runners at the end of a race.

8. Amplification of the senses. Increased sensitivity.

8a. Sight: Blurry vision, shimmering objects, seeing glittery particles, auras around people, plants, animals, and objects. Some report seeing formerlyopaque objects as transparent. When you close your eyes, you no longer see darkness, but a redness. You may also see geometric shapes or brilliant colors and pictures when eyes are closed. Colors appear more vivid -- the sky might look teal or the grass an amazing green. Often I see grids running across the ground.

As you become more sensitive, you may see shapes or outlines in the air, especially when the room is almost dark. When your eyes are open or closed, you may see white shapes in your peripheral vision (these are your guides).

8b. Hearing: Increased or decreased hearing. I once thought I would have to pull off the road because of the painfully amplified sound of my tires on the freeway. Other symptoms are hearing white noise in the head, beeps, tones, music or electronic patterns. Some hear water rushing, bees buzzing, whooshing, roaring or ringing. Others have what is called audio dyslexia-- you can't always make out what people are saying, as if you can no longer translate your own language.

Some hear strange voices in their dreams, as if someoneis hovering near them. You can either ask the presence(s) to leave or ask Archangel Michael to take care of the situation. Again, there is nothing to fear.

8c. Enhanced senses of smell, touch, and/or taste. I notice I can now smell and taste chemical additives in some foods in a rather unpleasant manner. Other food may taste absolutely wonderful. For some people, these enhancements are both delightful and distracting. You might even smell the fragrance of flowers now and then. Many of the mystics did. Enjoy it.

9. Skin eruptions: Rashes, bumps, acne, hives, and shingles. Anger produces outbreaks around the mouth and chin. I had a dermatitis on my extremities for several months that accompanied healing an episode from my past. When I had worked through most of the issue, the condition was released.

10. Episodes of intense energy which make you want to leap out of bed and into action. Followed by periods of lethargy and fatigue. The fatigue usually follows great shifts. This is a time of integration, so give into it.

11. Changes in prayer or meditation. Not feeling the same sensations as before. Not having the same experience of being in contact with Spirit. Difficulty in focusing.

12. Power surges: All of a sudden you are heated from head to toe. It is a momentary sensation, but uncomfortable. In contrast, some people have felt inexplicably cold. I have experienced both. More recently I experience waves or currents of energy rolling through me. Sometimes the energy seems so intense when it first comes into my body that I feel a little nauseated.

But if I think of the energy as divine and let go of fear, I feel wonderful and enjoy the sensation. If you are an energy worker, you may have noticed that the heat running through your hands has increased tremendously.

13. A range of physical manifestations: Headaches, backaches, neck pains, flu-like symptoms (this is called vibrational flu), digestive problems, muscular spasms or cramps, racing heartbeat, chest pains, changes in sexual desire, numbness or pain in the limbs, and involuntary vocalizations or bodily movements. Some of us have even had old conditions from childhood reappear briefly for healing.

14. Looking younger. Yippee! As you clear emotional issues and release limiting beliefs and heavy baggage from the past, you are actually lighter. Your frequency is higher. You love yourself and life more. You begin to resemble the perfect you that you really are.

15. Vivid dreams. Sometimes the dreams are so real that you wake up confused. You may even have lucid dreams in which you are in control. Many dreams may be mystical or carry messages for you. And in some dreams, you just know that you are not "dreaming" -- that what is happening is somehow real. Advice: You will remember what is important for you to remember. Don't force anything. Above all, stay out of fear.

16. Events that completely alter your life: death, divorce, change in job status, loss of home, illness, and/or other catastrophes -- sometimes several at once! Forces that cause you to slow down, simplify, change, re-examine who you are and what your life means to you. Forces that you cannot ignore. Forces that cause you release your attachments. Forces that awaken your senseof love and compassion for all.

17. A desire to break free from restrictive patterns, life-draining jobs consumptive lifestyles, and toxic people or situations. You feel a compelling need to "find yourself" and your life purpose -- now! You want to be creative and free to be who you really are. You might find yourself drawn to the arts and nature. You want to unclutter yourself from things and people that nolonger serve you. Advice: Do it!

18. Emotional and mental confusion: A feeling that you need to get your life straightened out--it feels like a mess. But at the same time you feel chaotic and unable to focus. See #45.

19. Introspection, solitude and loss of interest in more extraverted activities: This stage has come as a surprise to many extraverts who formerly saw themselves as outgoing and involved. They say, "I don't know why, but I don't like to go out as much as before."

20. Creativity bursts: Receiving images, ideas, music, and other creative inspirations at an often overwhelming rate.

21. A perception that time is accelerating. It seems that way because you have had so many changes introduced into your life at an unprecedented rate. The number of changes seems to be growing.

22. A sense of impendingness. There is a feeling that something is about to happen. This can create anxiety.

23. Impatience. You know better, but sometimes you can't help it. You want to get on with what seems to be coming your way. Uncertainty is not comfortable.

24. A deep yearning for meaning, purpose, spiritual connection, and revelation. Perhaps an interest in the spiritual for the first time in your life. "Constant craving", as k.d. lang says. The material world cannot fulfill this longing. 25. A feeling that you are somehow different. A disquieting sense that everything in your life feels new and altered, that you have left your old self behind. You have. You are much greater than you can possibly imagine. There is more to come.

26. "Teachers" appear everywhere with perfect timing to help you on your spiritual journey: people, books, movies, events, Mother Nature, etc. Teachers may appear to be negative or positive when you are trapped in polarity thinking, but, from a transcendent perspective, they are always perfect. Just what you need to learn from and move on. By the way, we never get more than we are ready to master. Each challenge presents us with an opportunity to show our mastery in passing through it.

27. You find a spiritual track that makes sense to you and "speaks to you" at the most profound levels. Suddenly you are gaining a perspective that you would never have considered before. You hunger to know more. You read, share with others, ask questions, and go inside to discover more about who you are and why you are here

28. You are moving through learning and personal issues at a rapid pace. You sense that you are "getting it" quite readily.

29. Invisible presences. Here is the woo-woo stuff. Some people report feeling surrounded by beings at night or having the sensation of being touched or talked to. Often they will wake with a start. Some also feel their body orbed vibrate. The vibrations are caused by energetic changes after emotionalclearing has taken place.

30. Portents, visions, "illusions", numbers, and symbols: Seeing things that have spiritual importance for you. Noticing how numbers appear synchronistically in your awareness. Everything has a message if you take the time to look. I enjoy the experience of "getting the messages." What fun!

31. Increased integrity: You realize that it is time for you to seek and speak your truth. It suddenly seems important for you to become more authentic, more yourself. You may have to say "no" to people whom you have tried to please in the past. You may find it intolerable to stay in a marriage or job or place that doesn't support who you are. You may also find there is nowhere to hide, no secrets to keep anymore. Honesty becomes important in all yourrelationships.

32. Harmony with seasons and cycles: You are becoming more tuned to the seasons, the phases of the moon and natural cycles. More awareness of your place in the natural world. A stronger connection to the earth.

33. Electrical and mechanical malfunctions: When you are around, lightbulbs flicker, the computer locks up, or the radio goes haywire.

34. Increased synchronicity and many small miracles. Look for more of these.

35. Increased intuitive abilities and altered states of consciousness: Thinking of someone and immediately hearing from them. More synchronicities. Having sudden insights about patterns or events from the past. Clairvoyance, out-of-body experiences, and other psychic phenomena. Intensified sensitivity and knowing. Awareness of one's essence and that of others. Channeling angelic and Christ-consciousness energies.

36. Communication with Spirit. Contact with angels, spirit guides, and other divine entities. Channeling. More and more people seem to be given this opportunity. Feeling inspiration and downloading information that takes form as writing, painting, ideas, communications, dance, etc.

37. A sense of Oneness with all. A direct experience of this Wholeness. Transcendent awareness. Being flooded with compassion and love for all life. Compassionate detachment or unconditional love for all is what lifts us up to higher levels of consciousness and joy.

38. Moments of joy and bliss. A deep abiding sense of peace and knowing that you are never alone.

39. Integration: You become emotionally, psychologically, physically, and spiritually stronger and clearer. You feel as if you are in alignment with your Higher Self.

40. Living your purpose: You know you are finally doing what you came to earth for. New skills and gifts are emerging, especially healing ones. Your life/work experiences are now converging and starting to make sense. You are finally going to use them all.

41. Feeling closer to animals and plants. To some people, animals now seem to be more "human" in their behavior. Wild animals are less afraid. Plants respond to your love and attention more than ever. Some may even have messages for you.

42. Seeing beings of other dimensions. The veil between dimensions is thinner, so it is not surprising. Just stay in your sovereignty. You are more powerful than you can ever imagine, so do not entertain fear. Ask your guides for help if you slip into fear.

43. Seeing a person's true form or seeing loved ones with a different face -- past life or parallel life. 44. Physically manifesting thoughts and desires more quickly and efficiently.

46. Dizziness. This occurs when you are ungrounded. Perhaps you have just cleared a big emotional issue and your body is adjusting to your "lighter" state. Advice: Ground yourself by eating protein. Sometimes "comfort food" feels right. Don't make any food right or wrong for you. Use your guidance to know what you need at any given moment. Take your shoes off and put your feet in the grass for a couple of minutes.

47. Falling, having accidents, breaking bones. Your body is not grounded or perhaps your life is out of balance. Or your body may be telling you to slow down, examine certain aspects of your life, or heal certain issues. There is always a message. When I recently broke my ankle, I understand that my ankle was taking on what I myself refused to deal with. And that was all of the above.

49. Heart palpitations. A racing heart usually accompanies a heart opening. It only lasts for a few moments and means that the heart is re-balancing itself after an emotional release.

50. Faster hair and nail growth. More protein is being used in the body. Too bad we can't tell the body where to grow the hair and where not to grow it. (Or can we? Hmmm.)

51. A desire to find your soulmate or twin flame. More than ever before, the idea that we can have a relationship that matches who we are seems more desirable.

52. Memories surface. Body memories, suppressed memories, images of past lives and/or parallel lives. We are healing and integrating all our "selves", so expect to have some of these experiences.

Teleportation

2009-08-25T21:34:00.015+10:00

To teleport, you raise your vibrational level up so that your physical body disappears completely off this plane - then, using your astral body, or whatever body it is, you find your spot in the physical one and drop your vibrational level down. Since we would be working with a higher plane with a different mind-set this should all happen instantaneously in this plane because time works differently there.

It takes up a lot of energy too, more than psychometry or psychokinesis. Teleportation involves altering your atomic structure, in order to move through the physical plane. Don't be surprised if you hear a loud ringing in your head if you successfully move off this plane and come back; your atoms are going nuts.

To raise your vibrational level, you could use a breathing technique.

There are different ways to teleport, and each require a certain amount of skill.

One, is doing it consciously, and for this you need focus - and a lot of it. You would need to be able to focus on teleporting with your entire being, you can't stop and think about tomorrow's party or yesterday's lunch half way through or you'll lose it.

The second way is to do it in a dream-like state. In this state you are below your conscious in a state a lot similar to lucid dreaming. The state I experienced was both a mix of the conscious and unconsciousness. I was both awake and asleep. I was aware of my body and my whereabouts, and yet I was not consciously aware. I hope this makes sense.

I am not entirely sure how to enter this dream-state, but there is a way to do it, because I did it... somehow. There are hypnosis CDs available online in which you let your mind wander and fall unconscious while the information is absorbed on an unconscious level (which you can use to your advantage) but there's another way I think is possible.

It feels similar to lucid dreaming. I wouldn't be surprised if you could teleport upon entering a lucid dream state. Here is a link to a teleportation exercise which may be of use to you. Try lucid dreaming exercises to train your brain into reaching a conscious unconscious state.

Here is another link for your own interest: the teleportation category at WhatWeird.Com.

Also, I found a teleportation technique for you.

-------------------------WARNING-------------------------

Remember, teleportation is risky if you don't do it correctly; you could arrive at the wrong spot (who wants to appear in someone's bathroom??) and I don't want to know if splinching is real [because if it is, you're screwed].

The most important thing, though, is that putting too much strain on yourself to either teleport or use any psychic ability can seriously lower your sugar levels or worse, kill you. Be careful!

WisdomDoor Website

2009-08-19T09:09:00.002+10:00

Tom DeLiso, also known as Hermes, has written a number of unpublished but order-them-on-the-internet books called the Reality Creator series. However, he has generously published quite a lot of his knowledge online in articles. Even if you consider yourself a fairly informed new-age buff, there is always more to learn, and Hermes gives detail about issues other authors haven't addressed, such as, why we feel a closer connection to human beings rather than the Divine?

Chain Mail Quotes

2009-08-17T20:26:00.001+10:00

I'll start with this one....

"Don't worry about people from your past,
There's a reason why they didn't make it to your future"

To be updated whenever

Meditations and Information from Diana Cooper

2009-08-11T18:39:00.003+10:00

Because she is lovely and I wanted to share her insights around. Very interesting stuff. It feels authentic to me, but use your own intuitions.

Meditation to Release the Collective Fear Held on Neptune

Why on Neptune?

Life on Other planets (12 Dimensions of consciousness video anyone?)

There are many questions she has answered on her website, but I thought these were the most interesting ones (I am obsessed with Atlantis at the moment!)

Lots of love

Wynter

Claire Gibb and Atlantis

2009-08-10T17:45:00.005+10:00

She has had numerous visions and dreams giving her insights into Atlantis culture and her past life on Atlantis. Her site explains Atlantian Therapy, where she channels the language, combining it with Reiki, and the Dance of Life, a healing, get-in-the-moment, be-yourself technique. Please check it out if you're interested.

The Free Hugs Campaign

2009-08-07T20:12:00.003+10:00

The Free Hugs Campaign was created by a young man from Sydney who, after coming back home from London, had no one waiting for him at the other end of the arrivals door. Watching all the families laughing and hugging, he really wanted a hug, so created the campaign to spread the love!

The campaign has spread like wildfire all over the world in a changing world with changing people. You can buy your own free hugs tee shirt, check the forum for any people in your area who want to start a campaign, or download the "hug theme" songs from Itunes, thanks to the Sick Puppies Aussie band.

So if you're feeling in a good place, feel free to share some love.

Healthy Desserts

2009-08-06T19:04:00.004+10:00

A bunch of desserts you can easily make and eat without feeling like rubbish afterwards. :) These are not in depth as I'm not a pro chef, there are books for that!

1. Fruit Milkshakes

Pick any fruit you think works well in a milkshake, add some milk, a tiny bit of ice cream, blend it all up and you're done!

2. Fruit Smoothies

Same as above, except add a bit of sourmilk instead of ice-cream to add thickness and a yoghurt taste.

3. Fruit Salad

Put your desired fruit in a bowl, chop up some fresh mint, collect a tiny bit of sugar and sprinkle it all over!

4. Yoghurt

It's the easiest one in the book. Get full-cream since low-fat products are packed full of sugar! If you're bored, pack some into ice block trays and make frozen yoghurt!

5. Ice Blocks

You can buy little plastic ice block trays (with sticks) at the shop. You can put any fruit juice you like in, put it in the freezer overnight and you're done! Run hot water on it to take them out. Try out putting layers of flavors to make it a little more interesting!

6. Sorbet

Buy it right from the shops. They're light, refreshing and you can get a variety of flavors.

Of course, everyone likes some gelato or other desert once in a while, and it's not going to hurt you if you're taking care of yourself. This is just an alternative if you've been feeling a little gross lately. Love and peace!!

Negative Neil

2009-08-05T20:40:00.002+10:00

No, he's not that negative. I'd say he's more cynical and amusingly realistic.

I heard about him through the Smart Mouths forum - which I guess is a change from all those Adam Lambert forum things he apparently gets. I don't want to say he's Adam Lambert's brother but if it brings him more hits, sure, why not? Thing is, forget Adam Lambert because you can't get to him through there - not that I care, I mean, I've heard of the guy (who hasn't, really?) but I haven't experienced his hype. Neil's a cool guy though.

Check out his blog.

I think it's hilarious. He's a very good writer.

Channeled Insights

2009-08-03T22:01:00.007+10:00

That have either come through moi or Dot, but please, you guys can channel too. We're all equals here. Just wanted to share the looove! Again, take what you want. If you want to believe this is just us talking, that's fine with me. I think their interpretations are fairly straightforward and easy to understand, but if you have questions, write in the comments. I think this will be a constantly updated post.

Life is abundance

How will we be able to tell when 2012 consciousness shift has happened?

Aprhodite: "Love is everywhere" will be a fact

Aphrodite: Love will always be a beautiful fountain

Kuan Yin (pretty sure it was her I can not remember anymore): Love carries you down the stream of abundance

Consciousness is a mirror

Life is a celebration of having everything you want

Love is sacred

Trust is power

Imagination is limited by the perception of imagination

You are beautiful just the way you are. You don't need to change for anyone, even yourself.

Materialization

2009-08-03T20:42:00.004+10:00

Miracles are not contrary to nature, but only contrary to what we know about nature.

- St. Augustine

The Holographic Universe by Michael Talbot describes many instances where human beings have been able to materialize objects into existence out of "thin air". Sai Baba is one of these, and has been seen by many people all over the world. He has materialized gifts such as necklaces or bracelets, to food, holy ash and much more. For those who are skeptical, the book Sai Baba: a Man of Miracles is a semi-autobiography of him with personal experiences by the author. The author starts of a skeptic, and this book records his evolution from non-believer to believer. The readers undergo this experience as well, unless they are afraid and are completely against believing. Scientific types like neurosurgeons have gone to visit, and have unable to find a loophole in what he does.

To those who have a throughout spiritual understanding of consciousness, will know that humans create their experience through thought. One would simply think to use the Law of Attraction to materialize what they want, but according to this channeled information by someone who seems to want to remain anonymous, the process is a little more layered than that. I hope the author doesn't mind I share some more love around!

These channelings are from the Angels of Materialization and Dematerialization, also known as the "Angels of Nimtrix". More explanation as to what Nimtrix symbolizes can be found half way down this page.

Again, take it or leave it. If you don't believe this, don't take it in, but the information is interesting regardless. Think of it as the author of the webpage speaking if you want. Simple!

What are these Angels here to teach us?

We teach how to materialize or de-materialize objects in this manner in meditation through The Power of The Word. We are also available to materialize or de-materialize objects upon command when asked and allowed by Divine Providence.

Their Messages on Materialization

Beloved,

It is humankind's divine birthright to perform miracles for the highest good of all. There are times when it is the highest good to materialize or dematerialize a certain state of being, desire, belief, feelings, or even material objects, or all of the above. Everything in creation, whether from the past, the present , or the future, exists in the most subtle realm of Akasha, the omnipresence of Divine Being, accessed in the Delta brainwave state of pure being and unity with Divine Being and all creation. From this state, any creation can be condensed into more and more solid forms.

First a creation becomes fire, which is INTENT OR DESIRE for the creation. In this stage it is a clear visual image, still in the Delta brainwave state.

Next it is contemplated in mind. Then it condenses into a more solid form in the Theta brainwave state of deep inner thought. At this stage its form is that of mental matter, or the air element.

The next stage is the water state of flowing feelings, the Alpha brainwave state. This state is magnetic and will attract the desired creation into physical form. Therefore, flowing feelings of the creation being in manifestation are generated.

The materialization of an object is brought about by flowing with MAGNETIC FEELINGS of a form existing in physical reality, then imagining the sensation of shape, measure, number, and weight of the imagined form in a particular place. To the extent that imagined sensations of shape, measure, number and weight are focused and strong, to that degree the materialization is successful.

The de-materialization of an object requires de-condensing energy by sensing the form becoming less dense, like water, and then light and airy, like a mental thoughtform. Finally, the desire for the object is surrendered back to Divine Being, so tha even the fire element is also released. To the extent that sensations of an object becoming flowing, then light and airy, then hot and expansive are focused and strong, to this degree the de- materialization is successful.

All of this is done with flowing feelings of faith in the materializing or de-materializing of it.

As you can see, even though actual acts of materialization and dematerialization are results of feeling energy of Alpha brainwaves in a state of omnipotent faith, whole brain functioning is required for this skill.

The state of being and will, [Delta Waves-pure being], the thought, [Theta Waves-deep inner thought], the Feelings, [Alpha Waves-feeling], and the sensations, [Beta Waves-memory, logic, five senses] are all required.

Leading up to 2012

2009-08-02T19:48:00.013+10:00

Timewave2012 site has a multitude of links concerning sites related to the big 2012 shift. It's very reassuring and encouraging to see so many links in one place, all about so much exciting change.

October 24-26 2009 marks a date where a large group of people are going to use some technology to attempt to contact ETs. The Disclosure Project is also working hard to ensure the truth about ETs get revealed.

The book, Science of Peace by David Wilcock looks like a very interesting book about how our consciousness shift is in line with the solar system changes and what this means. Listen to the author talking about lucid dreams, aliens, 2012 and more at disclose.tv. Start listening at the 3rd video. David is making movies based off the information in his books, which is mentioned here.

In relation to DNA, here is an article about DNA changes, also referenced in the Pleiadian channelings a few posts back.

The Venus Project crew have some interesting ideas about how our technology can advance in the future once we have a consciousness of peace. The site is flashy, informative and professional, although not quite as specific as one might like

That's all for now

I am very excited. Thanks Timewave2012 site for helping me find these sites.

How the "Saving People Complex" Begins

2009-08-02T10:34:00.007+10:00

Wow. All the self-help books and my friends keep telling me that you 'can't save people', but I know thinking positively and love solves everything so I'm sure I can save them.

Unfortunately, life doesn't work this way. I know it only seems logical that it should, but it just doesn't happen (I've been there. Trust me). Your loved one might change their behavior a tiny bit, but that's all. Amazingly, people don't want your help. You can offer them your help, but if they don't want it, they don't want it. It doesn't matter how messed up they are. Some people like the drama in their lives. They like the attention. It's true people can lie when you ask "How are you?", but no matter how you look at it, they have chosen to lie about it. They can also choose to ask you for help if they need it. It might be scary for the other person, but if they want it enough, they will ask. If they ever truly want to change, they will find a way to do it themselves.

Lots of people today are stuck in their drama. They constantly get lonely or feel bad. Yes, that person might be feeling horrible in general, and they are so miserable and messy in their energy they simply can't feel happy no matter how badly they might want to. But that's where the asking for help comes in. If this person wanted it badly enough, they would go to a Reiki session or some sort of therapy that can clear up the aura and make them happy.

This is a very important life lesson, and many people take years to learn it. It is perfectly okay, and you, my friend, are doing very well in life right now. Once you learn this lesson, that you can't save people, you realize you also can't change people's minds, so if an argument appears, you can only tell them your point of view and leave it at that. If someone is screaming, if you tell them to stop screaming, chances are they will keep screaming. Even if you tell them your point of view, they won't listen. They know they're right, and in their reality they are. You are also right, but what are the chances you'll change your mind? Not very high. It's the same for them.

Honey, you don't need to run after people all the time. Everything is happening exactly as it is supposed to. You can offer your help, give them a hug- here are some things you can do if you find someone who is stagnant in their energy, but otherwise... if they say no, they're saying no.

I hope many of you lovely people have managed to find this site, because I really want to help you. :)

Lots of love!

Get a Taste of the Anime Universe

2009-07-26T16:09:00.004+10:00

I thought I'd compile a list of anime with really good first episodes, because there are lots that start of well and become not-so-good, and there are those that stay consistent all the way through. Regardless, it's a nice way to get a taste of what the anime world has to offer.

Eureka Seven (2005)

Genre: Science fiction/Mecha/ Romance

# of Episodes: 50

Episode: Blue Monday

A character orientated romance series with a mellow atmosphere like Juno. Brilliant music, character designs and animation. [full series review]

Voices of a Distant Star (2002)

Genre: Drama/Romance

This 30 minute short film was made single handedly by Mikoto Shinkai on his laptop. A beautiful story with touching moments and gorgeous visuals- it has been very influential on anime in general. [full review]

Inuyasha (2000)

Genre: Action

# of Episodes: 167

This series starts of well but gets filler and uninteresting afterwards, but the first episode is still well worth watching on it's own, for the great atmosphere and fun action. [full series review]

Kaleido Star (2003)

Genre: Comedy/Drama

# of Episodes: 50

A lighthearted, fun, touching anime about following your dreams and aiming to be the best. Wonderful animation and music. [full review here]

Mai HiME (2004)

Genre: Action/ Comedy/ Drama/ Romance

# of Episodes: 26

Everyone knows about the Magical Girl genre. This is possibly the best in the "group magical girl" genre, with a theatrical first episode. Slick animation, beautiful music and a great atmosphere. A must see. [full review here]

Midori no Hibi (2004)

Genre: Comedy/Romance

# of Episodes: 13

The first episode of this series has some wonderful, fluid animation, fun story and decent enough music. Must see if you like comedy. [full review here]

The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya (2006)

Genre: Parody

# of Episodes: 13

I wasn't too fond of this series but it's so popular I would be an idiot not to mention it here. Wonderful animation. [full series review]

Tsubasa Chronicle (2005)

Genre: Fantasy/ Romance

# of Episodes: 26

A wonderful first episode with gorgeous visuals, flawless music, likable characters and interesting premise. [full series review]

Cardcaptor Sakura (1998-2000)

Genre: Magical Girl / Romance

# of Episodes: 70 (3 series)

I saw 2/3 series of this anime (want to see the last one day) and there was not a single filler episode. Each episode comprises of Sakura searching for the lost Cards (or defeating a big, evil dark force) with the help of her friends. If you can, watch the original japanese version with subs because they changed a lot to fit the dub, such as ridding of any yaoi between Toya and Yukito and Syaoran and Yukito. [more]

If you can, try and get the DVDs of a friend so you can get the full experience with wide-screen!

Television Recommendations

2009-07-26T11:31:00.009+10:00

Angels in America (2003)

This mini series was based off the 2 part play by Tony Kushner, where each episode is around an hour long. With a bunch of talented actors and actresses, detailed characters and wonderful story it won lots of awards. I found it a bit slow at points, but it was really beautiful, brilliant and at times disturbing, combining politics, mythology, philosophy, sex, comedy and psychological drama. Very eerie, but with nudity, lots of swearing and sex scenes. You could definitely watch it more than once. About the AIDS and homophobia outbreak years ago. Watch at your own risk. [Wynter] 9/10

Buffy the Vampire Slayer (1997)

Buffy the Vampire Slayer is about Buffy, a vampire slayer (who would have guessed?). But you'd think that because she's a vampire slayer, she'd do nothing but slay vampires all the time. The reality is, the vampires are more of a backdrop for the show to turn back to. There is also comedy, romance and drama. Buffy the Vampire Slayer has seven seasons and a variety of fun, likable, memorable characters. It's generally a fun show (it had a musical episode!), but the first season has the best episodes. [Dot]

Eat to Save Your Life

The popular ‘naked chef’ Jamie Oliver takes a break from his cooking program to show us specific examples of why the food today’s nation is consuming is unfulfilling and not nutritional. He helps re-define the standards of what is ‘fit’, ‘unfit’ or ‘unhealthy’- shows how bad an obese persons’ organs are to a fit person, and much more. While Super Size Me made me feel sick, this program kept me sane while showing helpful information. I hadn’t seen Jamie before this program, and judging from the way he is placed in advertising I thought he was going to be some stuck up bozo who had no style or sense of humour. Wow, Jamie is one of the most beautiful people I have ever witnessed on television. He is caring, affectionate, confident (but not overly so), down to earth and to the point. Lots of show hosts tend to ‘keep it clean’ but Jamie wasn’t afraid to get his hands dirty. His energy is very subtle, gentle and (forgive me) feminine. But men really need to be more accepting of their inner females. A very motivating, well presented program. [Wynter] 9/10

Jamie's Fowl Dinners

Imagine how you would feel if you were trapped in a cage all your life, unable to express your ordinary behaviors. That’s what Jamie Oliver asked us when Jamie’s Fowl Dinner’s aired Wednesday (2008) in Australia. The program was extremely successful, reaching many of us who are now determined to buy free range eggs and chickens. The program was extremely well done. Jamie shows us viewer’s information we haven't seen before. You won't regret watching the program- it's entertaining and informative. [Wynter] 8.5/10

The Gruen Transfer (2008---)
Apparently similar to "The Panel", The Gruen Transfer is a nice Australian show to watch for people looking for some education, as well as entertainment. The focus of this show is adds- analyzing them and finding out if they are effective or not, and the results can be amusing. A fan favorite is the "sell the unsellable" segment, where top advertisers create an add for something really stupid. Worth watching if you like to take things apart. [Wynter] 8/10

The L Word (2004---)

Made by the creators of Queer As Folk, The L word is focused on girl on girl couples than boys. The show is lacking in plot compared to Queer as Folk, but the characters are interesting, fun, the atmosphere is nicely mellow, the show doesn't feel as stupid and shallow as Sex in the City, because of the comedic and dramatic aspects. It gets tiring to see characters hook up with random other characters continuously, so the first season/the last are the only ones worth watching. The L word feels more repetitive than Queer as Folk, and it's this aspect that makes it dry. Like QaF though, it's good for kicking you out of homophobia because the characters break stereotypes. [Wynter] 7/10

People Like Us (1999-2001)

They say acting is a job with two extremes, the good and bad, but we only really hear about the good. People Like Us is a humorous British spoof documentary about how acting isn't all it's cracked up to be. I was almost dying from laughter because it's not the stupid kind of jokes- it's the "funny because it's true" jokes. Rob Hart is played by David Tennant, and it's this fact that drew me in to watch it - but it's great regardless of if you're a fan of David Tennant or not. [Dot] 7/10

Queer As Folk [US] (2000-05)

This excellent show combines comedy, romance and drama together. While there are frequent sex scenes in this show, they're skillfully filmed and slickly put together. The characters are well developed and the story (what there is of one anyway) is interesting. From what I gather, the episodes just follow the lives of gay men and women, but after a while the "let's hook up" formula gets redundant, so watch the first two seasons and skip to the last one. Great if you're homophobic and want to kick yourself out of it- somehow, 90% of the characters they come across are gay! It comes to the point where you think the straight characters are weird! The characters are all likable, human, relatable and break stereotypes. [Wynter] 8/10

That 70's Show (1998-2006)

I wrote a list of reasons why you should watch the show, which is also my review. Click on the link to know more! :)

Fun Music for Fun Times!! :)

2009-07-26T11:25:00.016+10:00

Click on the links for previews of the artist in form of music videos!

artists [ sorted by first name ]

JPOP!

Anna Tsuchiya
Many Jpop artists have high pitched voices with small vocal range, but Anna Tsuchiya's voice is unique and Katy Perry esque with pop/rock music. There's a bunch of different styles: from punk/rock to bubbly pop. The difference is Anna's songs have a definite sense of beat and catchiness. Her videos, album photography and music have a unique style. There's lots of electric guitars! In some songs her style is definitely "gothic". 8.5/10

Aya Hirano
If anyone wanted more from Haruhi Suzumiya, check out Aya's debut album! Think: Girlfriend-esque Avril Lavigne on speed. The songs are so upbeat they come across as eccentric and insane. But her wacky, fast paced rock numbers and unique voice make her stand out from the crowd. I love the album cover and she's got a unique style going for her in terms of color scheme and fashion! Well done, Aya! Recommended if you want to bob your head around like you're on drugs. 7/10

Ayumi Hamasaki
Ayu has been around since 1999 and has become a "fashion icon" and trendsetter because of her popularity in Japan. Personally, I think her voice sounds weird but her music has a bit of everything in it: pop, techno, classical, rock and some RnB too. Along with her vast music style, she tends to change her 'look' for every single album that comes out. She's released 11 albums to date! That's over 100 songs! So if you don't check out her music you're missing out on a musical phenomenon. (100+ songs, WTF?? How can you write so many, Ayu?) She gets points for music range, unique-ness and effort. 8/10

Boa
She is a very famous Jpop/Kpop singer, who has released around 11 albums (according to the Japanese Itunes). Her music jumps between eccentric dance/pop numbers and slower ballads. Of course, she has a decent voice otherwise she would fail miserably. Even if you aren't into pop, you're ought to find something that suits your fancy somewhere within her bucketloads of songs. Some of her upbeat songs sound similar to Rihanna or Chris Brown, for those who are fans. 8.5/10

Bonnie Pink
Bonnie Pink has been producing quality Jpop music since the 1990’s. Her voice is unique and refreshing, her music is soothing and varied- from ballads to upbeat pop songs. Her music sounds very mellow, unique but pleasing, like something from a cafe, BBQ, hair stylist, over a coffee table in the afternoon with the curtains shut, beach volleyball, an 80's film, summery trees... I hope you know what I mean. 7.5/10

Changin' my Life
Changin' My Life (CML for short) was a Jpop Band that had myco's vocals, Shintarou Tanabe on the guitar and Noritaka Henmion the keyboard. They debuted in 2001, and broke up in 2003. Most of their songs played in the anime Full Moon o Sagashite- with myco as the main character. Myco's voice is unique, different, and the songs are catchy! There is a mix of upbeat tunes and balads on here. Check out "Best of My Life", their Best-of album, with non-stop hits!8/10

Leah Dizon
She's a Jpop artist who sounds similar to American artists like: Jordan Pruitt, Jo Jo, Ashley Tisdale and Rihanna so if you like these artists, check out her music! It sounds like something you'd here in the middle of Supre because they're highly beat driven, poppy to the max yet addictive. Most of her songs are really upbeat. She's also very pretty and doesn't look like the 'stereotypical jpop artist'. Although, only her singles are strong in the catchiness factor. Skip the albums. 6/10

Mikuni Shimokawa
Although her voice isn't the strongest she can still whip together some catchy tunes whether its a ballad or a fun pop song. Reprise contains her best hits, many of which have been anime theme songs. Excellent if you want pop. 7/10

Perfume
Perfume consists of Kashiyuka, Nocchi and A~chan who focus on the techno side of the Jpop world. Their music is dance orientated, sounding similar to Carameldancing. Their voices are unique but sound high pitched, childlike and lacking range. They're highly edited to fit the techno theme. But their songs are catchy and addictive despite the flaws. But beware, their debut album was named "Best of" even though its not a best-of album! 6/10

Utada Hikaru
Utada Hikaru is one of the few Jpop artists on the American/Australian Itunes. Her music sounds authentic, relaxing and high standard. Her style hangs on the line between soft pop ballads and RnB. Her voice is smooth and has an enormous range. She can actually sing english fairly well, it's not drowned out by a japanese accent. Her songs are on the slower side, which may not appeal to everyone- but it's great if you want to chill and think back for a while. She has a unique style, so I can't compare her to anyone on the US market. Only negative is her songs can sound too much the same at points 8/10

Wonder Girls
They're a female hip-hop, fluffy pop Korean group. Like Perfume, their vocal ranges are lacking, but their songs are catchy and can get in your head! Particularly So Hot, which is guilty pleasure addictive. 6.5/10

Younha
Another JPOP (and KPOP) girl, Younha has a very mature beautiful voice with amazing range. Think Kelly Clarkson or Christina Aguilera. Her songs can range from dark rock, upbeat pop, ballads... a variety of things. Her songs are catchy, and music authentic. She’s a bit like a grown up YUI. Be sure to take a listen even if you aren’t into this sort of thing! You can buy Songs- Teen's Collection (a collection of singles) CD off YesAsia. 9/10

YUI
YUI is like Michelle Branch gone Japanese! While her vocal range isn’t the best, she can still sing much better than the majority of whiny pop singers out there! Not only does she look like an ordinary person in her videos, but she’s absolutely gorgeous and adorable. Her music is a mix of upbeat pop and acoustic guitar pieces. Her music and singing sounds very authentic and real, instead of a bunch of dodgy instruments that makes you go “WTF”. The Japanese describe her voice as ‘angelic’ (so I’ve heard) and that’s hard to disagree with. She sounds like a little girl, but not in an annoying way. It’s very pleasing to the ear. 8/10

POP/ ROCK / TECHNO (aka. Fun stuff!)

Avril Lavigne
Whether you consider Let Go, Under My Skin or The Best Damn Thing Avril's best depends on your music tastes. If you prefer pop/accoustic guitar then Let Go will better suit your tastes, if you're into dark rock/punk Under My Skin will be most suiting, and The Best Damn Thing is punk/pop. Her songs don't have strong subject matter or lyrics- but they're meant to be fun. Her singles are very strong, and it's hard to recommend an album on it's own, so wait for a "Best of" album to come out. 7/10

The Beatles
Anyone who has a brain knows The Beatles don't always have happy songs, but they are presented in an interesting and inspiring way- for example, Let it Be, truly does have some good advice in it, and many of their songs are deep, beautiful, unique and.... everyone knows the Beatles are awesome, right? Do I really have to explain? 9.75/10

Billie Piper

The star from Dr Who lived her music career in the 90's. Part of the Pokemon First Movie soundtrack, her pop music is the breathing definition of fluff, bubblegum pop and catchy. Her vocal range is little, but she's great at what she does!! 7/10

Britney Spears

My Prerogative, her best-hits album contains all the Britney songs everyone knows (and loves secretly in the bottom of their hearts). Light hearted, poppy, sexuality-driven boy fun! What more can someone ask for? Who cares if she doesn't have a wide vocal range- she's memorable! Fun to sing and dance to since the average person doesn't have a great vocal range either. :) 8.5/10

Delta Goodrem
Delta's music has always been a stable of soft pop and ballad tracks, but her music style slowly evolved and changed over her career. In terms of lyrics and vocals Delta is one of the strongest in that area. Meaning is present in every song. 8/10

Demi Lovato
I've looked through a lot of pop girls on Itunes, and many of them don't stand out. While there's nothing wrong with the music, it fails to hook you. It's unoriginal, normally cliche and 'been there, done that'. While Demi's music sometimes falls into that category, the stand out tracks on her album are worth looking at. The album turns out to be very decent for teen pop. It's got a rock/punk edge. If you like Katy Perry, make sure to check out some of what she has to offer. She sounds like a junior version of Paramore. 7.5/10

Hannah Montana
Parents, the lyrics are clean and nothing serious so there is absolutely nothing to worry about. Good for kids due to the catchiness factor, but some of the songs *sarcasm* might annoy parents! They're just light, poppy fun! So if that's what you want and like, then go ahead and check out the songs!! Warning: they're super corny. 7/10

Hilary Duff
It takes a lot of guts to review someone like Hilary Duff, who is one of the most hated girls in America alongside Ashlee Simpson. Her voice is child-like, with a low vocal range, predictable lyrics, but it fits her very childish style of pop. She has ended her music career with a Best of Hilary Duff album, but there were a few songs I like that weren't on the list. I have put them in the name link. 6/10

The Hush Sound (Indie)

Katy Perry
Her voice is deep but unique, something individuals like the crew at Metacritic have a hard time getting used to. Her music is very well written with quirky lyrics, fun rock/pop music and songs that aren't all about romance. Click on the link to know more. 8/10

Kelly Clarkson
Gorgeous, strong, large ranged vocals, touching lyrics and authentic, catchy rock/pop/ballad music, Kelly Clarkson has explored a number of different styles during her career, All I Ever Wanted being arguably her best alongside Breakaway. I like All I Ever Wanted because it sounds very happy! 9/10

Lady Gaga

Lady Gaga is flat-chested, stylish, pretty and quirky. I saw her on Rove and was pleasantly surprised how gentle and composed she was. Her released singles are fantastically catchy and addictive once you get past the fact it's technofied to the max. Lady Gaga's voice is solid too. Lady Gaga is influencing people to become more open to their sexuality because of the unique, interesting way she presents herself. 9/10

Marie Mai
Any fans of Kelly Clarkson will adore Marie Mai. Not only do their voices sound incredibly similar in pitch and quality, but their music is in the same rock genre. French vocals add a little something extra too! 8/10

Michelle Branch
She produces very good quality rock/pop music, with pianos, acoustic and electric guitars. She can actually sing, her voice is unique, she puts emotion into her songs, her songs jump between upbeat rock tracks and ballads, the songs are catchy, the lyrics are nice. Her music sounds authentic and pretty. She's one of the few artists who has had nothing but positive reviews on Itunes. So please support the girl, as her music's been an inspiration to many! All her songs have a strange way of making me feel really happy. Her newest album will be country/pop, so keep a look out for her! 8.5/10

Miley Cyrus
If you like The Veronicas older music or Katy Perry's, maybe Miley's will appeal to you. Her songs have more attitude, aren't so juvenile and are less edited than Hannah Montana, so I recommend her over her Sitcom counterpart. Despite Miley's small vocal range, she doesn't risk anything she can't do, so it's pleasant to listen to if you can accept her unique voice. Even though her songs aren't deep or mature, or the lyrics groundbreaking, that's the whole point. It's supposed to be light, incredibly catchy, fluffy fun!! 7.25/10

Taylor Swift
She has a unique voice, but can actually sing and produces music that sounds authentic- even though the chorus's can be a bit messy. Her songs are very catchy and it's obvious that Taylor is a very nice girl because she is always singing about the people and things that inspire her in her life- even the sadder songs have a very honest, compassionate meaning to them. Even if you don't like country (many Taylor Swift fans hate it), it's worth taking a look at Taylor Swift's music!! She's released two albums, one in 2008 and her most recent, Fearless in 2009. 8/10

The Veronicas
Australian female duo who sing rock/pop/techno music depending on which album you pick up. Their singles are excellent and catchy. Their voices may be a little breathy, but the music i relationship-mania fun that is cool to dance to! 8/10

Wes Carr
His music sounds authentic and edgy with acoustic/ electric guitars, pianos, drums. The subject matter and the lyrics are mature and unique, not silly love songs and sleaze numbers all the way through. You're bound to find at least one you like. There are upbeat tracks and slower ones. If you don't like the rock style he's taken on this album, his previous one, Simple Sum is very relaxing, acoustic guitar/ piano-ish and slower. Ballads all around. 8.5/10

soundtracks

Camp Rock
Wicked

That should get you started. There are PLENTY of others I haven't listed here, but if you invade Itunes you'll find things through links. :)

Listen to your intuition and act accordingly. Best wishes.

Movie Recommendations

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Atonement (2007)
"How is this good? It's pretty boring" I thought initially, but it got more interesting as it went along. The story is memorable, you feel for the characters fears and emotions, the music is eerie and moving, visually it looks gorgeous- props to the director. But warning to those weak hearted: at first I thought "This should be rated M or PG" but the rating gets explained as it goes along. It's better the second time around, and the DVD extras are pretty informative. A depressing yet memorable movie. Watch it when you feel like watching something serious.[Wynter] 8/10

Back to the Future! (1985)
Michael J. Fox from Teen Wolf stars in this SMASH 80s hit sci-fi, romance, action, adventure, comedy about how time-travel can mess up your future (or save it). Its the classic film that made the cliché. The characters are memorable, the plot is interesting, and the special effects, while old, look realistic. The DVD extras are fascinating to watch. Back To The Future is now one of my favourite movies [Dot]. 9/10

Beetlejuice (1988)
Directed by Tim Burton, Beetlejuice is basically a "What Not To Do" for the recently deceased. I strongly recommend this movie because not only is it entertaining, it's well made. Beetlejuice's character really annoyed me, but I adored the other characters, as they are quirky and lovable, even the "evil" family who you kind of dislike, but they grow on you. Of course, Tim Burton's animating makes an appearance throughout. [Dot] 7/10

Bridget Jones' Diary (2001)
Those who have read the book will know this is witty, funny and lovable, correct? Bridget is a smoker, an alcoholic and quite heavy. She plans to get rid of these things, but like many human beings, never gets 'round to it'. We observe Bridget as she deals with family issues, her weight, friends and, of course, guy issues. Bridget's life is (sadly) quite typical, and that's what makes it so appealing and entertaining to watch. Bridget Jones' Diary is a hilarious movie and is good to watch over and over again, with friends or alone. [Dot] 8/10

Death at a Funeral (2007)
There are so many films that try too hard to be funny, or are just plain stupid- but this film has a mix of all types of humor. I've seen it with my family and 2 group of friends- all of them have different film tastes, and they loved it. The acting is hilariously believable, the characters are not that memorable but have distinct personalities, but it's mean to be light! The music is excellent, filming is stylish, and the setting is very clever. I was on the edge of my seat throughout most of it. 8/10

Festen (1998)
There are specific rules of how to make a dogme film: the actors wear whatever they feel like to the set, the camera is handheld, there is no music except for tunes on set, there is natural lighting, no makeup, the director isn't mentioned in the credits. It makes the films look very real and natural. Festen / "The Celebration" is a very dark Death at a Funeral, in the way it takes place in one setting. There are definite characters and the story is executed in an interesting way. Generally entertaining, although depressing, with lots of swearing and a few intense scenes (R/MA15+). Borrow it on DVD if you can, but only watch it if you feel like something serious [Wynter]. 8/10

It's a Wonderful Life (1946)
Considered by many as one of the best feel-good, heart-warming movies all time, and one of the most influential films in general. It has touched many people with it's story and characters because it is something everyone can relate it. It's about George Bailey, who frustrated with his life, gets visited by a guardian angel who teaches him a few things. Borrow it, because it's good to see once. [Dot] 7/10

Jaws (1975)
Jaws is famous for making viewers paranoid about the ocean. It is for a mature audience. Each death is built up to the worst, most gruesome, bloody death. Part of what makes Jaws scary, is the unknown quality the shark is given. When we can't see the shark, we tremble and quake with fear. We don't know where exactly it is but if you're in the water, you're doomed. The shark becomes less scary near the end of the film where we can see it. I think this is because humans are afraid of the unknown. Although the movie is a classic, I would not re-watch it. I didn't take much away from the films except that sharks can viciously attack people at beaches. [Dot] 7/10

Juno (2007)
Juno is not a fast paced comedy like some people like to call it, but a mellow slice-of-life drama. Subtle and silent, it treads the line of realism. Think In her Shoes. It's charm is in the little moments and memorable, I-feel-for-this-person characters- the small details put into every scene, facial expressions (great acting from Ellen Page by the way!), the saturated colors, props, the quirky dialogue and the occasional bursts of emotional turmoil. Even if you don't enjoy it, you can't deny it is well put together. I found it more entertaining the second and third times around. [Wynter] 8.5/10

Secret Smile (2005)
The story is about a girl named Miranda (Kate Ashfield) who after having a one night stand with Brendan Block (David Tennant) their relationship gets a bit unnerving. It's based off the book by Nicci French under the same name, and this movie, despite what it looks like, is actually very realistic. It's subtle with the hints and clues, very gradually building up to the climax. The movie jumps to scene to scene very quickly and gets to the point. The acting is also very convincing. Entertaining and good to watch once but that's it. [Dot and Wynter] 7/10

The Breakfast Club (1985)
he Breakfast Club is about five different stereotyped teenagers who all meet in detention and are forced to communicate with each other. Nowadays, to watch any remotely old movie causes you to hesitate, but I was taken aback by the quality of the dialogue and visuals. The characters are extremely realistic, lovable and memorable, so makes for a much more entertaining movie. You've got the criminal, the jock, the kook, the princess, and the brains. The story is quite simple, but that makes it a lot more enjoyable to watch - we don't have to wrap our heads around complicated story-lines and plot twists. It's better the more times you watch it. If you ever get a chance to watch it, watch it. [Dot] 7/10

The Edukators (2004)

A German film, The Edukators is filmed in half dogme, half polished action film style. Heavy with political and social themes, it follows the lives of three teenagers on their quest to make the world a better place, whatever the costs. With a mix of romance, drama, guitar music and light hearted fun, The Edukators is an enjoyable film worth watching again. [Wynter] 8/10

The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975)
Mix fun, quirky songs with obscure story, dialogue and hilariously bad special effects and you get the Rocky Horror Picture Show. It's great to watch with friends, because there are so many weird things to point out- but there's a remake in the works so hopefully that won't butcher it. 7/10

Twilight (2008)
I've written an in depth review for this so it's best to click on the link. While flawed, it stuck close to the book in terms of how we imagine characters to look, scenery, effects and style.

Unknown White Male (2005)
It's a documentary about a british 30-something guy called Douglas who suddenly looses 20 years of his memory while on a train. 90% of the 1/10 critics say that Doug was faking the amnesia, and no offense but, why would he fake that? He has no reason to. Life had treated him well. From a movie standpoint there are better things out there but 1. it's a documentary and 2. you care about the people in the documentary. If it's on, watch it, but if not, it's not going to kill you. 6/10

Book Recommendations

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Clear your Clutter with Feng Shui by Karen Kingston

It's all about clearing the useless junk out of your house! It goes deep into why people keep their junk, what is considered junk, how to get rid of it and the benefits of doing so. I ended up reading the whole thing in one night! The next day I cleaned out my room. It was a relief to know I was making a difference this time. Highly recommended, especially for people who can't seem to keep their house clean! This is the most effective "cleaning" book I've read so far. 10/10

7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey

Like You can Heal your Life is to Law-of-Attraction fanatics, this book is the Bible of self help. If you want to start improving your life, this is the place to start. I couldn't stress just how amazing this book is - it covers too many topics to name, in an entertaining, eye catching fashion. You can get the answer to almost everything in here. It's targeted at the teen audience but adults have read them too. 9/10

You Can Heal your Life- Louise L Hay

Affirmations have been acknowledged by psychologists as a method of increasing confidence! For those who want somewhere to start with positive thinking, this is the way to go. 9/10

Polyamory: The New Love without Limits- Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships by Deborah M. Anapol

This helps confirm my feeling and gives me hope for the future of relationships. Although I found the book overly verbose and most of the time it made polyamorous relationships seem more complicated then they have to be, leading me to skip through half the book, the chapters I did read were excellent! Please be open minded and take the theory seriously. I'm not saying its for everyone but it gives another option. For those interested, her website has some articles. If you are highly skeptical to the idea, perhaps you'll find the entire book worth reading, instead of just chunks of it. 6/10

For those who want to follow my example, the chapters I found the most helpful and inspiring were: the contents (summarized each point the chapter holds!), the introduction, 1. What is Polyamory?, 3. Is Polyamory right for me?, 11. How Polyamory Benefits Us All (wonderfully inspiring, especially 'Babara's Song')

Self Help/ Spirituality

Chakra Clearing by Doreen Virtue

The Chakra/ Energy System is one that is used in the majority of alternative therapies. It's like if you go to a massage therapist they have posters of Trigger Points and all the muscles in the body. In a beautiful pocket size format, it's a basic introduction of the world of Chakras. It's straightforward, nicely presented, and gives chakra info as well as meditations, cutting cords and other energetic protection protocols. One version of the book has a Meditation CD, and once you can get used to Doreen's voice, you'll be introduced to some very nice affirmation work. 9/10

Discover Atlantis: A Guide to Reclaiming the Wisdom of the Ancients by Diana Coper and Shaaron Hutton

All the information in this book was derived from the authors channeling their spirit guide Kumeka, so you have to believe in channeling to find it of any value. But if you are ready, this book has mind blowing information inside. You skim through it, and think there isn't much, but it's jammed packed. It contains a fully formed blueprint for our increasingly mindful society. The information is all in there. 7/10

How to See and Read the Aura by Ted Andrews

I had tried other 'seeing aura' techniques in numerous other books, but they didn't work. This did. It has a mini quiz, eye charts to strengthen your eye and heaps more. It's a very interesting, straightforward and interactive- and gives some good examples to people unfamiliar with the term. 8/10

Messages from your Angels: What your Angels want you to Know by Doreen Virtue

Doreen Virtue, the queen of oracle cards, brings you an enlightening informative book that is guaranteed to positively, permanently change the way you perceive your world. The first half is information she's channeled from Angels: their perceptions on relationships, emotions..., what they would like to say to us, and questions they've answered. I highly recommend you check it out regardless of your beliefs. Their perceptions (especially Archangel Rapheal's) are the most valuable, useful information I have ever read. If you want, read them as bits written by Doreen. I am begging you from the bottom of my soul to be open! You are unlikely to find the information anywhere else. The second half is how to contact your guides/angels, and some information about psychics. 8/10

Archangels and Ascended Masters by Doreen Virtue

This book gives background information on a handful of God/Goddess/Ascended master, which is wonderfully educational- great for English classes! The channeled portions and stories are fascinating and it's cool to see everyone's preferences... I like invoking the Archangels, particularly Micheal and Aphrodite is pretty cool too. The most interesting part of the book is people's experiences with the Archetypes. The information Doreen has "channeled" is very enlightening, and is worth reading regardless if you want to see it as Doreen or the archetype saying it. See an example of it here. 7/10

Spirituality/ Paranormal

Astral Dynamics by Robert Bruce

Probably the biggest, most interesting and most detailed of all books on Astral Projection. Apart from the AP stuff, the book contains some helpful information concerning opening the chakras and sustaining them the "proper" way. Once you combine those with visualisations you've made up you get a pretty awesome result. This is THE Astral Projection book. 9/10

Other

Bridget Jones' Diary Comedy/ Romance

Written by Helen Fielding, the book was published a few years before the movie was released. It was that popular that they couldn't wait to make a movie out of it. Although the movie is based off the book, I don't think the two should be compared. They are quite different and have unique styles despite having similar stories. You learn a lot more about Bridget's friends and a few of them have their own small plot lines that gets resolved in the book. Mr Darcy is portrayed a lot differently in the movie. To me there's a slight geekiness to his character in the book. Quirky, light, amusing and fun. [Dot] 7.5/10

The Obernewtyn Chronicles Fantasy

The Twilight Saga by Stephanie Meyer Fantasy/ Romance

IT horror

Pleiadian Healing and Dimensions of Consciousness

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David A. Roberts, TheGameofTime on Youtube, created the Pleiadian Healing website. His work goes along similar lines as the Ascension channelings a few posts back, but his webpage and videos are just as valuable. He would like help finding a publisher for his book and card deck, so if you have any contacts with a metaphysician publisher, feel free to contact him.

I highly recommend you check it out because as suspicious as Dave may look by the video thumbnails (no offense intended!), he has a very comfortable energy. It's not like you feel ultra uncomfortable watching the videos. It feels very safe and welcoming.

Here are some of his videos since it's a little hard to navigate around his Youtube Channel. If you're not going to watch them in order, at least watch this first one, because it is a lovely introduction to Dave and what he does.

Pleidian Healer #1- Alien Interview

Pleidian Healer #2- The Mirror of Time (Part One)

Pleidian Healer #2- The Mirror of Time (Part Two)

Pleidian Healer #2- The Mirror of Time (Part Three)

12 Dimensions of Consciousness

Part One

Part Two

Part Three

Here's my thoughts on the 13th level of consciousness: The dimensions constantly illustrate a "splitting" and "rejoining" of matter/energy. It's the same energy cycle as what we experience here. There are infinite dimensions, because there are infinite possibilities." If everything is infinite- how could it be any other way? If you wanted to experience MORE, you could, because the Universe knows no boundaries. It will grant you whatever you wished.

Peace and joy to everyone!

xxxxx

Wynter

The Importance of Anxiety Management in Acting

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Is described by Mark Brandon in his article of "Get rid of Acting Jitters" from Actingbiz.com. I thought I could put excerpts in here. He has come up with a method of getting rid of nerves, which he calls "The Formula".

"In the past couple of years, I've been experimenting with numerous mental and physical techniques that address the Fight or Flight Response. I've tested it repeatedly with great success on both myself and the students of my workshops. It's an easy-to-follow procedure that amazingly counters all sense of threat, stress and perceived personal deficiencies. And it only takes minutes for its astonishing effects to kick in and work. Some actors have told me it has changed their lives."

He's finished the book and according to his publisher it will be out 'in spring', but so far there doesn't look like it's published. It isn't that helpful, but hopefully it'll be out soon. Look out for "THE FORMULA: How to Conquer Audition Fears Forever" at bookstores.

"After twenty-five years of working on both sides of the camera, I've come to a sobering conclusion about acting:

It's really 90% anxiety management and only 10% technique.

Most actors unknowingly have this equation reversed. They spend 90% of their precious training dollars and time on the 10% part. Throughout all the months and even years of training, the issue of nerve control is sadly glossed over or insufficiently addressed. I know. I've been a casting director and watched people walk into my office, wearing their uneasiness like Joseph's Technicolor Dream Coat.

I'm not trying to be facetious, here. It genuinely saddens me that otherwise talented performers come in thoroughly prepared, only to lose out to crippling fear.

Kevin Costner said he realized the industry was looking more for confidence than talent. I can personally underscore that notion by sharing some thoughts from a director with whom I'd recently had lunch. I asked him what was the single most important quality he looked for in actors who audition for him. "Confidence," was the one-word answer "For instance, there was this one guy who came in, and was so confident, I swear the temperature in the room changed. I knew the job was his before he even opened his mouth."

The opposite of confidence is nervousness or being self-conscious. By trying to appear perfect in an imperfect, uncontrolled environment (auditioning in front of complete strangers) performers subject themselves to a type of tension that is capable of completely obliterating any shred of confidence. Every actor alive should know that the real culprit is an ancient survival mechanism in the brain and hormone system. It's called the Fight or Flight Response.

[...] As actors in an audition, we bring about the Fight or Flight Response by fearing to appear flawed in any way. Out of that situation, the body senses threat. We also invite further symptoms of stress by entertaining self doubts while performing. Sadly, both mechanisms--perceived threat and perceived self-deficiency--guarantee a one-two knockout punch to your confidence, ruling out any hope of doing a good job. That's because Mother Nature is goading your body into fighting with rage, not auditioning with poise.

What makes The Formula work is the lock you create for each of the Fight or Flight Response's two primary triggers. One trigger exists in the mind. The other, is in the body. Learn to consistently lock up these two triggers and you can overcome audition jitters. Permanently.

The first trigger is what I call the mental loop. It's like a tape we allow to play in our heads over and over, entertaining doubts, or fears of looking foolish. Some of us are so used to it, we don't even "hear" it. This is because we are always comparing or judging ourselves and others.

In simplified terms, we live out our lives constantly choosing between fear or love. As a result, you can create a lock for this mental trigger of fear by consciously choosing thoughts of love around your audition. I'm not talking about romantic love; I'm merely recommending that actors replace vague fears of inadequacies and failure with previously prepared images of self-assurance.

Incidentally, if you think you don't have this kind of power or choice in the matter, find a photo of people on a roller coaster ride. Compare the number of smiles and laughter to terrified grimaces. Everyone on the ride is undergoing the same physical experience. Everyone is also choosing how to experience it.

The second trigger is in the body. It's the mechanism that provokes the endocrine system into continually shooting stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol into the blood stream, creating the building sense of physical tension.

Fortunately, it too, can be countered, or locked up. It is accomplished through a very deliberate and controlled breathing pattern. Extremely deep, rhythmic breathing signals the body that the threat has passed. Consequently, the mechanism shuts down, the hormones recede and the heart regains its usual pulse rate. As a result, the shoulders drop, the muscles loosen up and a greater sense of relaxation occurs.

I'd love for as many actors as possible to understand and use The Formula so they can, once and for all, play fully and audition fearlessly. I'd love to see far more actors operating only from the fullest possible reaches of their potential. And I want them to walk into their auditions with such utter confidence and self-assurance, they "change the temperature of the room."

Until then, breathe deep and choose love.

And break a leg!"

The Cards Speak!

I asked a question of how I can overcome nerves for acting so I can do a good performance on David Roberts Time Cards that answer questions by "mirroring the self". The symbols I got were 'traveling', 'love' and 'passion' which made a lot of sense to me. I interpreted it as if you want to get over nerves, be passionate about acting, love acting, love performing in front of people and having people look at you, love hearing about their reactions. You can use affirmations for this, and I will test it out tomorrow when I do my performance. Passion and determination makes you go places, basically.

The Beatles

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I thought this was too obvious of an artist, but why not? It deserves a place in my "fun and poppy" music list. Anyone who loves them should check out the movie Yellow Submarine, and Across the Universe isn't too bad either! :)

All you Need is Love from Yellow Submarine. Enjoy!!

Taylor Swift

2009-07-25T11:21:00.004+10:00

The video isn't too smooth but the song is light hearted and cute so take a listen to You Belong with Me.

"Decent" Threads in the Universal Psychic Guild Forum

2009-07-24T22:03:00.002+10:00

Thanks to a particular user on the forum who wants to stay anonymous.

Is It Possible to only have One Past Life?

Can we Meet "Ourself" (Incarnate in two bodies at once)

Channeled Information on the Universe and Spiritual Hierarchy

Spiritual Growth

Are Horcruxes Real?

Pendulum Dowsing (And why it sucks)

Why Can't you Speak Frequently with those who have passed over?

Tayesin's free E-book

It is necessary to meet your twin flame in order to move on from earth life?

Manifestation "Law"

Meditation Insights

2009-07-23T22:11:00.003+10:00

We were doing a healing meditation with the Archetype Atlas. There was a huge rant about "imagine what state the planet would be in if we all loved ourselves". But that's not the point. I had a revelation as to why self love helps heal the planet. An analogy if you will- a metaphor. It's very easy to understand- and it's meant to be that way!

If you love yourself/take care of yourself, you are happy

If you are happy, you laugh

If you get a giggle fit, laughing is contagious

So the whole room will be laughing their heads off

Even if it's about the lamest joke in the world

Everybody wins :)

Thank you to everyone who was involved in that meditation. It was fantastic-o!

Pokemon Caption Contest

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Check it Out

Random things people yelled out during HP6

2009-07-18T17:55:00.002+10:00

It's listed on an awesome IMDB thread. It reminds me why the net is awesome.

Various Recommendations To You

2009-07-16T21:16:00.029+10:00

Books

These are focused around the self help industry and what has worked for me.

Books for spiritual skeptics and newbies are listed here.

Movies

The movies we've put on this list are ones we've found enjoyable and attempted to review. I hate seeing slow movies, don't you?

The Ultimate Pop/Rock Playlist of Fun

There are far too many depressing songs out there, so these artists are from the cheesy, rainbow filled land of light fluffiness. I hope I have collected a bunch of songs you can dance to, help you focus on the good things in your life and (even if you hate the song) enjoy! ;)

Television

Anime and Manga Reviews

Anime quality can match the biggest blockbuster masterpieces, or the cheapest sit com. Please take a look at my reviews and use your intuition as to which ones you want to look at. Thanks to Animenfo. Some of the reviews still need editing, but they're not as unorganized as they once were.

Duality Going Away Explanation?

2009-07-16T20:58:00.004+10:00

EVERYONE READ THE CHANNELED messages. You get in touch with inspiration and stuff SOOOOO easily. I just had my own little "aha" moment.

There's a bit explaining "Duality will go away" and I was like "How the heck does that work?" then BOOM! understanding. It's because if we are all in a loving space, negative opinions like "What a bitch/jerk/idiot/retard...etc" will not exist. In terms of opinions, everyone will be grateful for what has been created. So, duality will not exist anymore!!!

Thank you !!!

Ascension and Spiritual Messages from other Planets

2009-07-16T20:27:00.011+10:00

This website is very awesome and informative. Seriously. There's some really neat channeled stuff which is totally awesome. You can take it or leave it but it's there and I strongly suggest you take a look at it all. If you can handle it, that is.

Check out this page too.

THE INDEX IS HERE.

We're very grateful this website and information is available for our viewing pleasure (and enlightenment!)

Wynter: I just wanted to say I am extremely skeptical about the whole idea with First Contact,the 9/11 attacks, the Illuminati and the Swine Flu. That's Extremely with a capital 'E'. That's a huge claim they are putting out there, and if they are inexperienced with channeling, or out of touch with their intuition, they could have easily made it all up, even if they don't intend to or realize it. Do they know the consequences of their actions? It all seems extremely dodgy to me. If it's right, sure, fantastic, but if not- dude, you have got to get rid of it. That's incredibly misleading. I don't care how 'nicely' it is said. That's not cool. I don't want to blindly believe it, then get disappointed if its false. All I have to say is, guys, I hope you know what you're doing. [/end rant]

There's heaps more on the site. My words and expression can't do it justice. Here's an excerpt on a higher vibrational race living on a planet near earth.

The Pleiadians

The Pleiadians are a collective of multidimensional spirit beings from the Pleiades star system, and have been speaking through Barbara Marciniak since May of 1988. The Pleiadians are here to assist humanity with the process of spiritual transformation in the years leading up to December 2012. Their distinctive style blends wit and wisdom, common sense, and cosmic knowledge in teachings that encourage expansive thinking and personal empowerment, and which have been compared to native shamanism. (“The Pleiadians” at http://www.pleiadians.com/.)

We of the Pleiadian civilisation are one of many races of beings that are space-bound. That is we have ships that can traverse the vast distances of space. The other space-bound races that we meet with that agree to a charter of Service to Other and non-intervention and so forth are invited to join an organisation called the Galactic Federation of Light.

The Galactic Federation has been quite directly involved in your planet in many, many ways for your planets whole history. Of late we have been bringing great many ships into the environment of your planet in order to assist with numerous subtle duties.

And here is a message from the creator of this website. Heed his advice. It is very wise and will do you good. I would say the same about this website, though it is not so articulate and productive as his.

L

ast revised: 22 April 2009

This website is about a series of events that are alleged to cause the downfall of a dark cabal and the freeing of the global population to enter an era of abundance and enlightenment.

The cabal that has purportedly controlled Earth’s affairs for eons is known to contemporary generations as the Illuminati, the New World Order, the Neocons, the Military-Industrial Complex, the shadow government, the deep state, and so on.

Pursuing an agenda of global domination and depopulation, the Illuminati are responsible for withholding technology, concentrating wealth, and engineering famines, radiation poisoning, weather warfare, false-flag incidents, illegal wars, genocide, and many other heinous and treasonable crimes.

Our cries for help, and those of the Earth itself, reached the ears of the Spiritual Hierarchy that governs this planet. They asked galactic nations of similar human origin to join forces with them to end the reign of the Illuminati.

Working with a vast force of Earth Allies or “White Knights,” the Galactic Federation, as it is most often called, has countered the dark cabal in a series of scenarios that rival “Star Wars.” We are currently watching the financial structures underpinning the rule of the Illuminati collapse. After their fall, the Earth Allies of the Spiritual Hierarchy and Galactic Federation will introduce a new prosperity program for all Earth’s citizens called NESARA, after the U.S. National Economic Security and Reformation Act. (1)

At some point, the galactic visitors will make their presence known. When it happens, this “Sighting” (some call it a “Decloaking” since most spaceships are invisible to our sight) will see countless spacecraft suddenly become visible for a period of one day to three days. It is said that their presence will uplift us, undermine the control of the Illuminati, and speed its demise.

The Sighting will not involve person-to-person contact. That will come later in what is called “First Contact.” The galactics have been refining their plans for these events for decades. Events will move quickly once direct contact can be established between terrestrial and extraterrestrial humans.

Following these events, humanity, the messages say, will gradually work its way through a period of Earth changes to an ascension which will complete itself by 2011-2012 (depending on the source you read), dates foreshadowed long ago in the Mayan calendar.

By 2012, we will have entered a “Golden Age” in two senses. There is the sense in which Earth has left the Piscean Age and entered the Age of Aquarius as of February 14, 2009. Hindus call the former the Kali Yuga or Age of Darkness and the latter the Sat Yuga, Age of Truth, or “Golden Age.” This is the pre-ascension meaning of entering the Golden Age.

The post-ascension meaning is that, at some untold date in the future, before Dec. 21, 2012, the Earth and as many of its inhabitants as qualify, having positively polarized themselves to a degree of 51% or better, will ascend to fifth-dimensional reality from the third-dimensional reality we presently occupy. Then will begin the Golden Age in its post-ascension sense. Its contours defy imagination.

I acknowledge how difficult it will be for some people to entertain these views. I personally have been here before. In the 1980s, I was fooled by a series of books attributed to “Hilarion” that said the world would end on April 4, 1984 (i.e., 4-4-4) and the lucky ones would leave Earth in a “rapture.” Then, as that date approached, I was told that we followers had handled ourselves so well that an extension of a year had been granted. After that, we never heard from Hilarion again. I still smart from the degree to which I exposed myself around that fraud.

In the 1990s, I was again convinced that Sri Sathya Sai Baba was going to create a “Golden Age of Sai” around 2010, only to discover that Sai Baba was in all likelihood the perpetrator of horrible sex crimes against male children. I threw away the product of years of writing about Sai Baba. My world collapsed along with my trust in avatars and Golden Ages.

Readers current with contemporary extraterrestrial events will know that the most recent prediction of a mass sighting on October 14, 2008 was also dashed. I accept the explanations of those of our galactic visitors who say that the circumstances were just not right. People were too afraid because of the imploding financial system. Not enough people would have seen the visitors’ coming as being friendly. And the cabal, which itself operates spaceships, would have used disinformation, spaceship attacks, and holograms to create fear. More time was needed. However, my disappointment at yet another seemingly-failed prediction was hard to overcome.

Thus, for me to get behind the events described in these pages has been extremely difficult. I would not be speaking about them if my tests had not been satisfied. I know that I am gambling a lifetime’s credibility on what I say here and I have to tell you that I am willing to do so. The evidence that you read in these pages is what has convinced me that these events will, in all likelihood, occur.

But even if they were not true and no galactic visitors were assisting us to ward off a nuclear World War III and global destruction, even if it were just a good read, I very much recommend that we get behind the plan outlined here and overturn the Illuminati ourselves. There is no doubt in my mind that everything laid down here is what needs to be done for the sake of all of us and Mother Earth.

As the disappointment of October 14 proves once again, you, the reader of these pages, will have to use your own discernment to decide what you wish to accept and what not. That will always apply to anything you read, here or elsewhere.

You are being asked to make up your mind on the veracity of messages from “dead” spirits and commanders of invisible, mile-long spaceships. You are being asked to consider stories of “reptilians” and “depopulation,” “end times” and “Golden Ages.” You are being told that these discussions are true. How are you to decide on these matters?

You must consult your own inner voice to see if these views resonate with you and seem possible, plausible, and probable.

When we read articles in the mainstream and independent press, we often hear people who have an axe to grind, an interest to promote, or a place in history to protect. When we read articles from the sources on this website, we can encounter some who only have a piece of the puzzle or who cannot predict the future, only future probabilities. The only ground we have to stand on while weighing the totality of this evidence is our own scrupulous integrity – our own rock-bottom refusal to settle for anything less than the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

If you are one who chooses to be “positive,” you may turn aside from that which sounds negative and miss the truth. If you are one who chooses to be “negative,” you may turn aside from that which is positive and equally miss the truth. If you turn aside from what is said here because it does not accord with your denominational belief or because espousing it will open you to ridicule, you may once again miss the truth.

You will have to pursue all trails here. You will see the same set of facts – such as Senator Pelosi declaring “martial law” on September 28, 2008 – being interpreted ten different ways by seven different commentators. Pelosi was defending the elite; Pelosi was defeating the elite; Pelosi was invoking a Congressional voting rule to speed up deliberations on a bill; etc. Pelosi is a heroine; Pelosi is a villain. Always you must consult your own inner voice and see with what account you resonate. What has the ring of truth?

For me to give you my opinion of the events discussed here is simply one more belief system you will have to deal with. I do not have the ear of God. I am not a psychic. I have no spirit adviser or galactic source.

But even though mine is just one more opinion, I’ll give it. I have often heard talk of a tremendous spiritual breakthrough for the Earth in the spiritual writings I have been examining for a book called New Maps of Heaven: The Conditions of Life After Death. (2) These comments date back to at least the 1870s. Consistently they say that a new age is coming. They discuss many of the events considered here. I have included many of these discussions in the chapter on ”Corroboration”.

I listened to living humans (not spirits or aliens) like MJ12 (3) microbiologist Dan Burisch say that the Roswell extraterrestrials came from our own future, travelling back in time to prevent a catastrophe from happening in 2012 which affected them. I listened to Burisch describe a future-reading device called the “Looking Glass” in which he watched that possible catastrophe. This device is not now being used because extraterrestrials convinced Earth authorities that the energy anomalies arising from its use were one cause of the impending catastrophe.

I listened to members of the Disclosure Project discuss the nefarious plans of the Military-Industrial Complex – one arm of the cabal that is spoken of in these pages – to create a war on terror as part of a plan to have perpetual war on the planet and thus perpetual demand for the weapons they produced. (4) One by one, these sources put pieces of the puzzle in place relating to the Illuminati or the onset of the period we are about to enter. They corroborate the messages from the Spiritual Hierarchy and Galactic Federation.

I never put much stock in these terrestrial reports though. I was not able to see the broader picture until I began to read the channeled messages of the Spiritual Hierarchy and the Galactic Federation. I am now convinced that we are watching the death throes of the Illuminati. I am also convinced that we are on the verge of “First Contact,” an “Ascension,” and a “Golden Age.” I have marshaled my evidence for this conviction and place it before you now.

I’d like to say a word about paradigms and the feeling of discomfort that arises when we go past them because we will go well past our paradigms here. Our paradigms form the limits of what we can see and what we will believe and accept. The paradigm that underlies our perceptual and conceptual processes, including those we rely on at school and university, is called “empirical materialism.” By its tenets, roughly put, seeing is believing. That is, only evidence gathered by the senses is to be accepted.

Since the very greatest and perhaps most significant parts of our lives is spent in a world – the spiritual world – that is invisible to the physical senses, nothing about the spiritual world is held to be true. By the same token, much of extraterrestrial life is spent in dimensions that are not visible to our physical senses. So neither spiritual nor extraterrestrial life is an acceptable field of studies. That means that the “Spiritual Hierarchy” and “Galactic Federation” discussed here both lie outside the paradigmatic walls that define legitimate study and concern. Those who study them are liable to ridicule and ostracism.

The same applies to people who exceed the limits of belief in social paradigms. For instance, anyone who believes that the Bush administration was responsible for the events of Sept. 11, 2001 (as the sources cited here say it is) is also susceptible to ridicule and ostracism. Anyone who believes that the Bush administration transferred vast amounts of wealth from the middle class to the upper class, seeking to win worldwide, full-spectrum dominance, to depopulate the globe, and so on, risks scorn and isolation. Finally, anyone who believes that a system that jettisons “free enterprise” for total social prosperity risks the same penalties. But here we entertain all three ideas.

Our fear of incurring scorn and isolation is, I allege, one of the most powerful forces on Earth to inhibit us and keep us within the parameters of current conceptual and social paradigms. As a case in point, when you first heard that I would be speaking about “spaceships” and “Golden Ages,” how did you feel? Were you tempted to sign off this website immediately and pretend that you had never read a page of it? Even if you accepted what was said here, did you find difficulty discussing it with your friends and neighbours, loved ones and relatives?

So just realize that to encounter what I consider to be reality (namely, all the matters discussed in this book) you will probably come up against the limits of your comfort zone, the limits of your conceptual and social paradigms. This is going to cause you some considerable difficulty. I would imagine that, if you asked anyone who has studied these subjects for some time, they would all acknowledge dealing with the same feelings. Take your time in riding the roller coaster that encountering this material involves.

Perhaps I should share my own experience. It feels to me as if I have lost more friends out of discussing what I have learned about these subjects than I care to remember. It has been a difficult, traumatic passage, what one author calls a “spiritual burn.” Many of my friends must feel that I have lost my grip on sanity. I have since spoken to many people who are in the same boat as I and they report the same results. I have had to find the wherewithal to pick up and keep moving on after my world fell apart and, I imagine, so will you.

I invite you to see the act of encountering your fear of ridicule as part of your work, your contribution to the total revolution that is now happening on this planet. We are all Lightworkers. Overcoming your fear of scorn and ostracism is boot camp, basic training. Even though these are the “End Times,” their outcome is not injury or death, but transformation and ascension. There are a growing number of others out there who, you may find, have the same background as you, are waking up round about now, and are eager to share with you if you can locate them – usually on Internet discussion groups. The Internet, not the mainstream media, has been the backbone of this revolution.

I’d like to acknowledge that use of the term “First Contact” for this website should not be construed to mean that the upcoming landings of the Galactic Federation represent the first contact ever between terrestrials and extraterrestrials. In fact there have been countless contacts between the two as the whole of this website attests to. I am aware that some reputable sources do not favour the use of the term, but it has entered common usage now and has too prevalent an acceptance to be dispensed with. I apologize to those who would prefer that another term be used.

Lastly, this site is not designed for all readers. It is denser than most will like. It tries to cover a notion or event as completely as possible. It is intended to offer ready research and a historical perspective to journalists, historians, lawyers, judges, lawmakers, and others who need to have a quick, convenient, but thorough overview of the subject. Each section can be used to trace notions and events; almost all sections are arranged in reverse chronology. It is not necessarily a website where one might spend a leisurely hour getting up to speed on the entire picture, as, say, with Wikipedia.

I apologize to those readers wishing that kind of treatment. I suggest that other writers and researchers take the material contained herein and amend it to satisfy other readerships. I consider that everything contained on this website is freely available to anyone to rework, providing they retain the spirit in which it was offered and do not work counter to the Ascension program that it supports.

Good luck as you enter our future world, the “Golden Age.” In my opinion, you cannot go wrong if throughout your investigations you subordinate your will to that of God. You cannot go wrong if you insist on integrity from everyone you talk to and offer them the same yourself. You cannot go wrong if you listen to your own inner voice for final guidance in all situations.

If these sources are right, there is nothing to fear and you and I are on the verge of the single greatest adventure that we could ever possibly imagine. Use these years to open your heart, extend yourself to others, and find your true identity. Knowing who you really are is the purpose of life, the desired end result, no matter what happens in this external world. (5)

I have had the tremendous pleasure of serving you by creating this website. In the process, I have stood on the shoulders of many others, people who risked their lives and reputations to make these matters known, whom I acknowledge and salute.

Namaste,

Steve Beckow
Vancouver, Canada

How do I tell if the Information I get is Real or Not?

2009-07-14T20:36:00.003+10:00

This is going to sound lame, but it takes practice. There will be times when you screw up and sound stupid, there's no doubt about it. But once you figure out what "your voice" sounds like its much easier to distinguish the two. Your mind can trick you sometimes and disguise itself as the truth, so watch out!

Remember to question. Does it sound like something you could have thought of or have thought at some point? Is it a little over the top and melodramatic? Is the voice very mean and unhelpful? Does it sound a little unrealistic?

The real information is normally very repetitive, to the point and random- something you would never have thought of in a billion years. You feel detached from the information as you get it. You hear it, but it doesn't feel like you said it. It's almost a dreamy state. This is a really good way to tell if it was real or not- judging by your mental state at the time. Where you thinking a lot, or were you blissfully blank? Were you trusting or worrying?

If you're not sure... forget about it, take a few days off and then look back and ask "Does this sound right?". It will be much easier to tell the real stuff from the crap once you're detached from the information.

Hope this helps

Are your Ready to do a Reading?

2009-07-13T21:53:00.000+10:00

1. Are you worrying a lot about the opinions of others? Are you worrying you'll screw up? Do you care about what they think? Are you worrying about what the answer to your question is?

IF YOU SAY "YES" TRY IT ANOTHER TIME

2. Do you feel excited and confident?

IF YOU SAY "YES" THEN GO AHEAD AND DO A READING

Hannah Montana: The Movie soundtrack

2009-07-12T22:22:00.002+10:00

The movie is basically High School Musical-ish in the fact it is mostly a collection of songs strung together with an okay plot. But the songs are awesome, very fun, light and poppy. One or two songs sound the same but otherwise the style and tempos are very unique and distinct.

Don't let the name 'Hannah Montana' put you off, though. For Taylor Swift fans, there is the very beautiful ballad "Crazier" to listen to. "Bless the Broken Road" is a acoustic country ballad, which isn't half bad (and a guy sings it!). Overall, it's a lot stronger than the Hannah Montana 2 CD, which had some overly edited, cheap sounding tracks on it. The Best of Both Worlds movie version is also a little filler-ish, but if you haven't got any other HM CDs, it should be a very nice bonus.

Pokemon makes a Comeback?

2009-07-11T20:39:00.003+10:00

Many fans agree that Pokemon is dead and that the series should end already! However, according to many users on this Serebii.net forum thread, the newest series that takes place in the Sinnoh region, has some actual plot elements to it. They raise some very good points, like how it depends when you started watching as to your enjoyment of it- and every region has its own tone and atmosphere- so you have to judge each series individually rather than the whole series as a whole.

I haven't watched Pokemon for years, but in my opinion, the series has gotten really repetitive. User SBaby accurately summarizes my thoughts:

"I don't think 'lost its touch' is a good way to describe it. Because Pokemon hadn't really changed all that much from what it used to be, except for having a more serious rival and now having contests. But it's definitely redundant if nothing else. They do pretty much the same thing every day with a few variations."

Check it out. It's nice to get a fresh perspective on things. I'll have to check out an episode sometime, and see if it lives up to the hype. Until then, if you want, you can check out my AnimeNFO Review of Pokemon.

2009-07-01T19:40:00.063+10:00

Anime

Get a Taste of the Anime Universe

Fruits Basket Manga

"Indigo" Pokemon

Hannah Montana VS Full Moon wo Sagashite

Beauty

Feel Good Australia

Use Sunscreen before your skin dries out big time!

Wear Roll-on Deodorant!

What are YOU putting in your hair?

Inspiration

From the Back Page of the "Fearless" Platinum Edition lyrics booklet

Get Connected

Hard to Say, Powerful to Hear

Imagine

Jamie's Ministry of Food

In My Dream...

Lullaby for a Stormy Night

Smile when you Feel like It

Something to think About

The Road to Failure is Plagued with Good Intentions

Vote for Cookery!

When You Love Someone...

Where is the Love? - More Inspiring Songs

Where we are Going

Words of Wisdom

Inspiration/ Beauty

Smiling Angels

Some Beauty Tips for you....

Psychology/ Science

Biology and Spirituality Collide!

What is Love?

Multiple Personality Disorder

Phobias

Subconscious Attraction Technique

The Effects of Therapeutic Exercises on the Brain

Time Travel Possibilities

Self Help

Acknowledge your Feelings

How the "Saving People Complex" Begins

Insomnia?

Loneliness

Make Cleaning Easier

Positive= 1000X More Powerful than Negative

Stop yourself Thinking

Study Japanese?

Surround Yourself with Positive People

The Four Agreements

The Future is what you make it, so make it good

The Law of Attraction is Always Working

The Non-Weight related Benefits of Improving your Diet

When you're Sick: Rest and Introspect

Words for You

Your Emotional Health Comes First

Spirituality / Self Help

Behind a Dis-Ease

Claire Gibb and Atlantis

Cut your Cords to Inanimate Objects

"Decent" Threads in the Universal Psychic Guild Forum

Improve the Quality of your Dreams!

Inspiration concerning Self Esteem

Pleidian Healing and Dimensions of Consciousness

Psychic Vampires

Repetitiveness and Redundancy

Sacred Love Lists

Shielding

Some Light on Non-Movement and its Place in Society

Some Light on Sadness (and other emotions that don't feel so good)

Spells and Magick

Spoon Bending

The Differences between Angels and Spirit Guides

The Meaning of Life????

The Seven Sacred Principles

Thoughts on Thinking

Relationship Dynamics from Aphrodite

Spirituality / Psychic/ Paranormal

Animal Spirits

Are you Indigo?

Are you Ready to do a Reading?

Ascension and Spiritual Messages from other Planets

Dream Interpretation

ET Phone Home- Insert X Files Theme Here

FAQ on the Tarot

How do I tell if the Channeled Information I get is Real or Not?

How to Interpret Dreams Guide

Many Layers of Experience

Materialization
Meditations and Information from Diana Cooper

Pleidian Healing and Dimensions of Consciousness

Remembering Languages Long Forgotten

Shapeshifting

Some evidence for the 'Crystals do stuff!' front

Spiritual Parallels

Time Slipping

The New-Age Paradigm of Time

We are All One

Book

Interview with the Vampire

Everything you need to know about writing successfully

JK Rowlings 800 word Harry Potter Prequel

The Hidden Messages in Water

Love VS Fear

Polar Opposites: Love and Hate

The Importance of Anxiety Management in Acting

Fun

81 Things you Learned from watching The Shining

About Watchmen's Blue Penis Complaints

Amazing Photography

Billie Piper and David Tennant

BTTF Facebook Application

Half Blood Prince Count

How to Sing

If Twilight was 10 Times Shorter and 100 Times more Honest
Interviews with Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart

Jamie Lawrence eating 5 Big Macs

Jamie Oliver's Website

Leah Dizon in Advertising

Monologues

Mugglenet- Caption Contest

Mugglecasters Reaction to HBP Trailer

Negative Neil (an Amusing blog)

Nerd Fighters

Pasta Salad

Pokemon makes a comeback?

Short Films

Short Films with David Tennant

Stephen King Movie Trailers

The Best of Fictionpress

The Other Jamie

The Suicide

There Will be Brawl

Vampires VS Werewolves

Various works of Fiction by Moi

Wacky Asian Entertainment

Webcomics

XKCD

You know you're Obsessed with Andrew Sims when...

You know you're Obsessed with Jamie Lawrence when...

Music

What's the Deal with Foreign Music?

Good Causes

Help Give Resources to others in a click!

Help Stop Global Warming!

Just Stand Up!

NESARA

Shorten Links for Good

Sign and Make a Difference

The Free Hugs Campaign

The GiveAway Project
The Micheal J Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research
The Smith Family

Blogthings Quizzes

Are you ready to be a parent?

Are you in love?

What Religion should you be?

What role do you play?

Do you Live in the Past, Present or Future?

Are you Depressed?

Do you Need Therapy?

How should you get fit?

Computers / Internet

Collative Learning- Rob Agner
Don't Like Blogger?

Emerson and Gaby are getting Married!

Gaby's Website

Help make Itunes Better

How to Make a Kareoke Track

HTML, CSS...etc

Mugglespace

Special Sites and People

2009-06-30T20:57:00.008+10:00

This is like the acknowledgments part of books except it links to sites!

The Universal Psychic Guild

It's got a great atmosphere and everyone on there is the walking definition of awesome (really nice, funny, helpful). If you have a problem in your life, a question about any of your potential psychic experiences or skepticism concerns- you can post about it on there and they will respond accordingly. If asking for help is not your thing you can always give people some advice or suggestions for their problems! It's been changing a lot lately and there are lots of different sections of the forum to suit your needs.

Victoria, The Kaiouken, Meg, ColourMySoul and others I have helped or been helped by, please know I think of you and send you love! I'm really grateful for the users who have given me permission to post their posts on here.

Spiral of Light (Hands on Healing)

They're situated in Canberra, Australia, but please know they do healing for people other places in the country and overseas. You don't even have to book a plane ticket! Their main practice is Reiki, but they have a few tricks up their sleeves too! ;)

Gives Me Hope!!

[Dot] Emerson and Gaby have teamed up to create Gives Me Hope - if you've heard of FML where people post about things that ruined their day, Gives Me Hope is just what you need to lift up your attitude.

Seriously, I've been waiting for somebody to make something like this - and it's been made and it's amazing! If you want to learn more about how Gives Me Hope came about, check out the site, and remember to check out the main page for some anti-FML madness!

[Wynter] I know I speak for many when I truly appreciate the work Emerson and Gaby put into this site. It embodies what this blog, many books, artists and people all over aim to do- put a smile on your face!

Bit of Hope

Similar to Givesmehope, it embodies the nice things users have done for people. :)

HatePost

Even though it lists the every day things people hate, it is both hilarious and reassuring. It's nice to know we can relate to each other so much :)

All you need is love, everybody!